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May 22, 2006

What will you do when she suddenly leaves you for another, lesser man?

Dear friends and subscribers,

Chris thought he had it all. He was rich. He was in great shape. He had friends. He had connections. And above all, he had a beautiful woman. He bought her gifts, lavished her with compliments, and above all treated him with respect.

So why did she dump him for a slob of a jerk who could barely hold a job?

Because the jerk knew how to do what Chris didn't: create attraction. And if you know how to create attraction, what happened to Chris will never happen to you... you're the guy who always gets the girl.

There's only one problem. No where is the SKILL of attraction taught. You can't learn it in college, or high school. There's no "academy of attraction." In fact, there's no where to learn the most prized skill of all--until now. To discover how you too can easily master this rare skill, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before it's too late.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:38 PM

She should like you but she doesn't-- why?

Hey guys,

Have you ever known a woman you were attracted to, and wondered why she just thinks of you as a friend... even though according to conventional wisdom she "should" be attracted to you?

Maybe you've even had her say to you, "You're such a great catch, how come you don't have a girlfriend?" but when it comes to you and her all she wants to be is "just friend." Kinda sucks, doesn't it? Why do women do this?

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The answer is a big key to understanding the attraction puzzle.
See, women do not make conscious decisions about who they're attracted to. They may say they do, they may provide lip service to that idea, but their behavior tells a different story.

The guy they should be attracted to (because he's a nice guy who'll treat her well, has looks, money, social status, etc.) is classified as "just friends" while they chase after they guy they should NOT be attracted to (jerks, losers, money-spongers, etc.)

Why? Because women make decisions about men based on one thing only: is the feeling of attraction present or not? If it is, they're after him no matter his looks, age or income. If it's not, all he'll be is just a friend, no matter his looks, age or income.

A woman's feeling of attraction is based on male behavior. This is great news for you because male behavior is controllable. It may sound simple, but it's absolutely true (and a great way to think about attraction): if you want a woman to be attracted to you, engage in the behavior that creates attraction, and avoid the behavior that kills it.

What you'll discover is, that when you engage in attraction creating behavior (like I teach in Secrets of Natural Attraction), and avoid attraction killing behavior, women who would otherwise think of you as a friend are now suddenly interested... with no logical explanation.

Logic, however, doesn't matter as long as you get the results you want--and there's nothing logical about attraction... except what I just told you.

To discover how to create attraction by modifying your behavior, have a look at www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm You'll be glad you did.

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 10:44 AM