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May 23, 2006

How to automatically attract desirable women

Dear friends and subscribers,

Why do some men automatically attract women wherever they go while others can't get a date to save their life, even if they have looks, money and social status?

The answer is simple: some men have learned to "turn on" the natural attraction that exists in side every man, while most men have been conditioned by society to be naturally un-attractive.

Here's the good news: any man can learn to make himself naturally attractive to women, quickly and easily. Most men don't because they just don't know how. To discover how to turn on your natural attraction, and attract the women you desire, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Imagine, no more heartbreak or rejection by women ever again-- see http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for details.

Posted by john at 04:31 PM

Confused about personal authority?

Hey guys,

I received a great question over regarding personal authority from a man who got my system and is taking action with it. Of all the things I teach, personal authority is the most important. It's also one of the things some guys have a lot of trouble with because it is so contrary to what the idiots in the media preach about attraction.

Here's his question, and my answer:

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Hey John,

Thanks for your material, it has helped me and it will continue to be my encyclopedia. Anyways, enough with the kudos - some of your readers may not understand this question in relation to personal authority as they may not know what it is, but why is it that sometimes I can feel a strong sense of providing personal authority to a woman, and then with other women I feel like I can't provide it?

Greg, San Diego

JA Thanks for the email, Greg--glad to hear you're taking action with what you have. Anyways, you bring up a very good question, something that many guys (including me) have experienced.

Sometimes your ability to manifest a strong sense of personal authority can depend on the situation. If, for instance, you're speaking somewhere from the stage, and a woman approaches you, then it's always easy to provide her with personal authority--the situation has already set it up. Same thing if you're introduced to a woman as someone who's famous (within a group), an expert, etc., or if you meet one online, talk to her on the phone, create attraction and have her looking forward to meeting you in person.

If, however, you're in a loud bar, with lots of GQ guys hanging around a woman you're interested in, it's a lot tougher because now you're in a competitive situation. You're up against loud noise, social status, and alcohol, and that situation makes it harder. Not impossible, but harder.

Personal authority is a skill like anything else, and the more you do it, the better you become. Of course what that also means is there are times when you mess it up, can't manifest it, or it feels like it's just not working. That's part of learning a skill, and you'll get better as time passes.

The real key, though, is to engineer situations like I described above where the situation itself puts you in a position of authority, and then all you have to do is continue it. It's much easier to "sell in a vacuum" than to take on any competition head on. When you're the only choice, it's much easier for her to choose--after all, it's between you and you!

Personal authority is the key to attraction- -to discover how to build yours, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 10:33 AM