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June 21, 2006

Who else wants to attract that one, special woman? You?

Dear friends and subscribers,

There's a myth going around about men. Many people seem to think that what men want is to date as many women as possible. But they don't know what they're talking about. Why? Because in reviewing all the correspondence I get from guys, what most stands out is that men want to attract that "one, special woman." Maybe they'd like to have a few adventures along the way, but what they really want is to attract "one."

I think this is a fine thing- but most men have no clue about how to go about doing that, and instead settle for the first one that comes around instead of that "special one" they truly desire. To discover how you can attract that "one, special woman" go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't miss out on attracting that one special woman because you didn't know what to do when you finally met her. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now to make sure you can meet her, then attract her.

Posted by john at 04:52 PM

Do you hate yourself?

Hey guys,

I went to the gym today to get a leg workout. At this particular gym they have several large screen TV's on which they occasionally show a few sports. But what they usually have on these TV's is the "Gold's Gym Network," a collection of bubble gum junior high pop music, and the worst of the worst whiney alternative music.

Now I usually ignore this garbage, but today I decided to pay closer attention because I wanted to see what today's generation was listening to.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm and discover new, unusual attraction secrets

On song after song I heard the same thing--how worthless the singer was ("he" had my full agreement), how dark life was, and how nobody cared at all about anything.

When I was growing up, there were songs about music, fun, women, and partying. You felt good when you turned on the radio. Heck, I remember driving around San Antonio late nights, listening to the Godfather, Joe Anthony, on 99.5 Kiss for hours because of the great music Joe played. I always felt great after doing so.

But you can't do that nowadays. Everywhere you go, the popular media is encouraging you to hate yourself, to feel bad about being alive, and especially to feel bad about being male.

But you want to know something interesting? Today's women ain't interested in guys who hate themselves. That's why today's "musicians" can't attract women--they hate themselves.

Confidence and authority start with liking who you are. If you don't currently like who you are, then get off your butt and change it. It's your choice. The best way to get started is to turn off the constant negative reinforcement prevalent in today's pop culture, and turn on stuff that makes you feel good. It sounds hokey, but it works--your mind is constantly being programmed by environmental inputs, and it's your choice whether those inputs are positive or negative.

So tell pop culture to take their self loathing and shove it into a dark place--start liking yourself, and women will start liking you too.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now

Posted by john at 10:45 AM