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June 30, 2006

Lost,, lost in a world of fantasy...

Dear friends and subscribers,

If you're from my generation, you might remember those words from the band Triumph--they were a great band, and "Fantasy" was a great song. Unfortunately, that's also an apt description of today's pop culture and media influence when it comes to attracting women... pure fantasy.

If you believe what society teaches, then you believe the way to attract women is by confessing your feelings, acting kind and sensitive, and begging for their favors. Good luck with that.

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-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:56 PM

"Authoritative humor"-- your secret weapon

Hey guys,

If you ever sat around with a group of guys telling jokes (especially politically incorrect ones), you'll know there's usually one guys who's downright hilarious, and one guy who makes everyone feel awkward, even if they both tell the same joke.

Furthermore, if there are any women in the group, they'll be attracted to the guy who's funny, who can make the group laugh on demand, and repelled by the guy who makes everyone feel uncomfortable.

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Why is this--and more importantly, how is it useful to you to create attraction? Women are attracted to the guy who makes everyone laugh because, woven in with his humor, is a strong sense of personal authority. HE determines when the group laughs, and they do so at his command. The group seeks his approval, not the other way around.

The awkward guy is just angling for a laugh. He seeks the group's approval--desperately. He's hoping that something he says gets a laugh--but it rarely does because he has no authority in his humor.

One of the most important skills to master when attracting women is the skill of "authoritative humor." Why is this so powerful? Because she knows you're not trying to impress her like all the other guys. In fact, she knows she probably shouldn't laugh at some of the things you say, bit she can't help herself--you determine when she laughs.

Authoritative humor works best as sarcastic, politically incorrect commentary on things going on around you. It also does very well as story telling, but not so well when telling jokes. Jokes are an obvious attempt to get a laugh, commentary and story telling produces laughter as a by product.

Test it out next time you're with a woman--start making politically incorrect observations about what's going on around you just between you and her. Do it right (and it does take some time to master), and you'll be amazed at how attracted to you she'll be.

On with the fun....


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:50 AM