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July 02, 2006

Can you live this fantasy life?

Dear friends and subscribers,

"Life is just a fantasy, can you live this fantasy life?" Those are the words for another song by the name of Fantasy, this one by Aldo Nova (not to be confused with a much different song of the same name by the band Triumph...)

Many men think that success with women is a fantasy for them, and that's a damn shame. Why because they buy into the fantasy about how to attract women the popular media perpetuates... and get the result that comes with applying fantasy strategies to the real world.

But, if you know how to create attraction with women, you can create and design your own reality, your own outcomes with women in whichever way you choose. It may seem like a fantasy to other guys, but it will be your reality. To discover how get the results you want with the women you desire, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead the lifetime of power, success, and choice you deserve? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now

Posted by john at 04:15 PM

I hear from a woman

Hey guys,

Although my list is, of course, mainly comprised of men, I do have a small, but loyal female readership who enjoy (and agree with, mostly) what I have to say.

So, today I want to reprint a few comments and observations from one of the ladies on my list--pay close attention, because there's always something to learn from women about women.

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I am a woman and I really don't know how I started receiving your emails, however I find them very interesting.

I must object, though, about a comment you made pertaining to a woman's crying. Crying is not a tool most women use to manipulate. If she is doing that she has missed her calling and should seek acting as a career. It normally is just something that happens that a woman cannot control.

I will say, it is over-reacted to. Crying for a man is extremely important. If a man cries, he is seriously upset and out of control. When a woman cries, it is much less serious. I cannot help it when the tears fall, but I wish no one would react to them. They are actually embarrassing and I feel a slight sense of failure that I can't prevent them more effectively.

Your advise to think of them as a tool and not be affected by them is off, in my opinion (you then must infer that the woman is using a manuevering tactic which is offensive). What really should be advised is, to ignore the tears because they mean nothing more than a facial expression means.

Second Note:

I have been on internet dating sites. The men, specifically, do not put any effort into creating interesting, helpful, informative profiles. It is truly ridiculous that they think anyone would react and email to them. Usually, there is no information and no photos. If there are photos, they are very poor photos that they just found in a drawer somewhere. I have a friend that I first saw on Match.com. He said in an email that he knew me from seeing me in a restaurant bar in my town. I looked at his photos (and he actually did a decent job in his profile) and they presented him so badly, I thought he was very unattractive. When I finally connected with him in person, I was shocked to see what an articulate, well presented and attractive individual he is. We still don't date (ha!) but the point is he misrepresented himself horribly online. The key is to represent yourself as you truly are not exaggerate and not eliminate. Photos must be their best because no matter what, the 3 dimensional is always better.

I believe there is a great need, and I have actually considered this as a business, to help people create their profiles and to do a photo shoot for them to post. You could, however, at least advise men that they need to take the time to write something great (hit on their best qualities, etc) about themselves for their profile (if they cannot write well or spell, get help from a friend who can!!) and how to go about presenting themselves in the best way. I am not suggesting anything untrue, but hey, something more than a blank page!!!

Thanks for your time,


JA: Thanks, for the email Vickie. I don't disagree with you at all about crying, and for the most part I recommend guys deal with it they way you described. However, when crying is linked to a recurring pattern of events, that's when it becomes a compliance technique, even if it is unconscious. Rarely do women actively scheme to cry to get their way--they just subconsciously "learn" that whenever they want to modify a man's behavior, out come the tears. This does NOT, of course, apply to all women, nor, in my experience, does it even apply to most--but it does apply to some, and you have to be very careful of those.

As far as most men's online profiles go, you're 100% right: they all suck. Luckily, I do have a system that teaches men how to attract women online--there's a whole section devoted to it in the Deluxe Version of my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System, even a complete online profile makeover coupon that comes with it. Check it out at: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Another great resource for attracting women online is Chet's Dating System, by my good friend Chet E. Rowland. Chet holds the world record (no exaggeration) for attracting women online, and I've seen him in action attracting women online (and in person), multiple times. If you're serious about attracting beautiful, desirable women online (and there are LOTS of them to attract), you must get your hands on Chet's system. See http://www.chetsdatingsystem.com/cmd.asp?Clk=1445098 for details.

Oh, one more thing--it's a long held tradition that if you're a woman on the King's list, you send in a photo of yourself (it will NOT be shared with others), so I'll know just how attractive all my female readers are!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to live a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? If so, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:06 AM