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July 04, 2006

Did you let a great one slip away?

Dear friends and subscribers,

Have you ever met a woman who just took your breath away? But, just when you thought you "had her," that she was "yours," she mysteriously disappeared, leaving you wondering what the heck just happened?

It used to happen to me too, until I got my hands on an unusual new resource for men, that described in great detail, how to make sure she never leaves you (unless you want her to) once you have her, as revealed by a sexy woman.

To check out this unusual new resource right now, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_attraction.htm before the day is over.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't miss out on a great woman ever again... go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_attraction.htm to take advantage of this remarkable resource.

Posted by john at 04:31 PM

Lost victories

Hey guys,

First off, I'd like to say Happy 4th of July to every American on this list. And, in the spirit of freedom and independence, and I'm going to talk about how you can overcome your "lost victories."

What do I mean by "lost victories?" Something that "should have been" that wasn't because you made one crucial mistake at the right moment, and it cost you. While you can't get back what you lost (if it's long ago), you can use what you learned to make sure it doesn't happen again, to make sure you have pure victory in the future.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover how to live a lifetime of power, choice and success with women.

Every single one of you on this list (including the ol' King) has had an experience where a woman broke your heart. That's OK, it means you're alive and you're human. Happens to the best of us, and it will happen to most of us again.

It's how you deal with it that counts, though. Too many guys make the complex equivalence of: because I "failed" in the past= I will continue to "fail" in the future. (If you didn't read my episode about "complex equivalences," you should know all my episodes are archived on www.johnalanis.com for review)

Here's a better "frame:" the past does not equal the future. Want an even better one? The LEARNINGS from the past create a successful future.

In my book, there's no such thing as "lost victories." There's no "failure" only "feedback" and results. Does that mean some feedback isn't painful? Of course not... sometimes feedback sucks. But, if you take it as feedback, and don't let if affect your self image, you can take the learnings to create a successful future for yourself.

So, today's a good day to declare independence from your past. Sit down and review all your past relationships, no matter how painful. Look for feedback and new learnings, especially in light of what I've revealed to you in these emails.

Do you see where you might have slipped into "nice guy" mode? Do you see where you where you could have slept with her fast... and didn't? Or, do you see a relationship you never should have had in the first place if you'd paid attention to her map or model of the world?

Don't let your past control you... you control it, and put it to work to choose the future YOU want. That's true independence!

OK guys, that's it for today... have a great holiday, if you're celebrating.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Want to learn about other neat ways to "declare independence" with women? Well then, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 10:26 AM