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July 08, 2006

Will you succeed like this man? Or will you do better?

Dear friends and subscribers,

Here's am email I just received from a man who took action, got my system and is now getting results. There's a lot to learn from this--pay close attention:

Mr. Alanis, my name is Nate and I want to thank you for all the help. I must attribute much of my success to you and your system. I've read the material once, but what keeps me going is the daily emails. Whenever i start to get that pansy ass emotional feeling about a girl i just met, boom, there is an email with advice. Its like the red bull of confidence boosters.

One night i said screw it, i went downtown with my friends, i threw my shoulders back, looked everyone directly in the eye, and portrayed a "sense of authority". Since then, i have had the best of times and i'm much more confident. It has really allowed me to stop taking things to heart. Now I blow everything off if i dont like it.

In my head i am the man and if girls try to shoot me down, i stand taller and they dont know what to do. It works everytime. Society has implanted this idea of happily ever after and blah blah blah blah, but, there are no guidelines of how one's life should unfold. T.V. plays all these shows with fairytale endings, but the honest truth is that this happens for maybe 1 percent of the population.

The "wusses" don't realize that most of their friends and relatives who are in relationships that seem great, aren't really that happy at all. They put on a show for everyone so that we wont see the true colors of their relationship. The problem is that too many people care about what others think of them. You are only on this earth for a short time, and in another thousand years, nobody will remember all the dumb things that you have done, so why give a s--t.

If you like something, do it. If you like a girl, go after her, if she shoots you down, don't give a s--t and find another one. Even the hitters who swing and miss a lot, eventually make contact. So, once again, thank you helping me to see the light, and for all the extra numbers that have been entered into my phone since i first purchased your material.

Have a good one

Nate R.

JA: Thanks for the great email Nate, and congratulations on your success. You've taken control of your own reality, and are now creating your own outcomes instead of letting others create them for you. That's fantastic, and it's a point few people ever get to.

It's all a result of you making the decision to get your hands on good information, then putting that information to use to get the results you desire, even if you stumble a few times. Keep doing what you're doing, and soon enough, one of those numbers you've gotten will turn out to be the woman of your dreams, one all your friends envy.

But, if you've got to wait awhile before you meet her, don't worry--you'll have a hell of a lot of fun along the way. Keep me posted on your future successes! To get your hands on the material Nate is using to get the results he wants, simply go to

http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun..

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to be my next success story? All you have to do is get your hands on good information and take action with it--go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now to do just that!

Posted by john at 04:53 PM

What to do when you want OUT

Hey guys,

As I'm sure you're aware by now, I write a lot of emails on how to attract women--seems there's a big market for that. But, something funny happens to a lot of guys when they finally learn to attract women and do something I warn them WILL happen: they attract too many women too fast.

See, attraction is an easily learnable skill, and once most guys learn it (especially guys who've been trapped in a lifelong "dry spell") they can't help but create attraction with every woman they come across.

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This, obviously leads to problems--but what many guys would say is a good problem to have... too many women to choose from. And I agree--it is a good problem, but it is a problem. The next step in mastering attraction is learning how to let women who are interested in you know it's time for them to move on, without hurting their feelings.

Now, the best solution to this is to disqualify women who are not suited to you before you start creating attraction. This, however, is a higher level skill, something that deserves in depth learning (and I discuss it in great detail in my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System-- http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm ). So, we'll talk about that skill at another time.

However, many guys who are just starting out are so excited to finally be succeeding that they don't care about qualifying. They'll learn soon enough, but in their initial (and perhaps well deserved) exuberance, they often create a mess.

So, the question is, how do they get out of this mess without hurting a woman's feelings? I get that question a lot from guys, and it is a good question. The answer, however, is actually pretty simple: if you're no longer interested in her, just do the things that kill attraction.

In other words, go back to your old self. Act like a nice guy. Call her all the time. Shower her with gifts and compliments. Act like a wuss. Soon enough... she won't return your calls, and won't want to see you. Why? Because she's not attracted to you anymore. What you'll discover when you do this is how much control you really do have over attraction. You'll also find out how unattractive that sort of behavior is to women so you'll know just what to avoid in the future with women who are qualified to spend time with you.

This is always the best way to end things with a woman--she thinks it's her idea, and she's not hurt. She's just not attracted to you, and therefore "doesn't think of you in that way anymore." Just what you wanted.

But don't worry--you and her can still be friends! Except this time, it's on YOUR terms.

On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS Want to have more fun, and attract more women than you ever have in your life, even find that one special girl? . To discover how YOU can do this, and be the envy of all your male friends, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm now.

Posted by john at 10:27 AM