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July 10, 2006

Don't chase, attract! Here's how..

Dear friends and subscribers,

There's nothing more frustrating than wondering if a woman "likes you," then pursuing her, trying to get her to notice you, even date you. How does it usually end? By her going off with a guy who she was "attracted to," a guy who never showed any interest in her at all.

Why would she do this? Because the guy who supposedly "showed no interest" actually knew how to create attraction, and she came to him, instead of him chasing her. Trust me, that's a much better way to go, for both men and women--if you'd like to discover how to "stop chasing" and start attracting, then simply go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm and discover how to get women to approach YOU first, no matter your looks, age, or income.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the big leagues and live a lifetime of success and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 04:27 PM

She's the woman who will...

Hey guys,

First off, I'd like to say thanks to everyone who entered yesterday's contest--I got some great "I'm the man who..." lists, and I'll be sorting through them in the next few days to determine the winner. I also received some very good "I'm the woman who..." lists which you will see are a heck of a lot different from original "I'm the wuss who..." list.

In fact, today I'm going to reprint one of the "I'm the woman who..." lists I received so you can compare it to the original list and note the differences between what society tells men women want, and what women really want. And yes, this woman IS in the running to receive my Platinum package for her entry!

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

Here's the original list again

I'm this guy

Im the guy who will text you every single morning and tell you good morning and every single night to tell you sweet dreams.

Im the guy who will hold you when you're crying and wipe away your tears.

Im the guy who still thinks you're beautiful with no makeup on wearing sweats and a big t-shirt.

Im the guy who won't pressure you to do things you dont want to.

Im the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren't feeling well.

Im the guy who kisses you on the forehead.

Im the guy who doesnt kiss and tell.

Im the guy who actually listens to you when you talk.

Im the guy who's excited all day because im looking forward to our date that night.

Im the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants nothing more.

I'm the guy who can't help but smile when you walk into the room.

Im the guy who's perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling.

Im the guy who won't lie to you about where he's going or where he's been or who he's been with.

Im the guy who gets butterflies when he hears your name.

I'm the guy who's not afraid to tell his friends he loves you.

Im the guy who doesnt mess with other girls when i have you

Im the guy who doesn't care about your imperfections and loves you more for them.

I'm the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset.


I AM THIS GUY.... one of many.... who always ends up loosing her to the jerks who'll treat her like crap and are "too good of a friend" to date

Girls if this is sweet repost this with the title "I want this guy" or if you have him post it as "I have this guy!"

Guys if this is you repost this with the title "I'm this guy

Enough to make you sick, huh? Now compare this list with the one submitted to me by a woman who knows what she wants in a man...

I am the woman who wants you to have fun with your friends

I am the woman who wants you to flirt with other women as long as you come back to me alone

I am the woman who wants you to take charge no matter how I may or may not fight it

I am the woman who wants you to be sexually adventurous and come up with plans and ideas and bring them to me so I can either share in those plans or say no

I am the woman who you can make laugh in very inappropriate circumstances and like that you do that

I am the woman that you can challenge and playfully make her see your side of the story no matter what

I am the woman who likes to challenge her man so that he never knows what to expect next

I am the woman who loves to be taken care of in small caresses then totally ignored as he knows how independent I am

I am the woman who likes to be teased in all ways and likes to tease back in various ways

I am the woman who likes to make bets and then likes to have the man win even though I try hard to win myself

I am the woman who likes to ignore her man all night then devour him when there alone

I am the woman who likes to crave being with her man as he is
always not around

I am the woman who says what she thinks and loves men that can stand there ground and not get upset with some of the silly or stupid things that may come out.

I am the woman who loves to have a man question and challenges me
in all I do, think and say and has no problem disagreeing with my view

I am the woman who loves to have men's attention however only wants one strong man in her life

I am the woman who loves to have men lead each situation as this makes me feel closer to them and makes me feel there strength as a man

I am the woman who loves to hear NO if this is truly how he feels

I am the woman who wants to surrender no matter how much I may put up a fight

I am the woman who loves to have her man make her laugh all the time even when she is disappointed or hurt

These are just some of the attraction ques that I can think of in a pool of so many fun things to do or be when you are attracted to someone as you say "on with the fun" you can feel free to use any of these however not my name please and thank you

Now, that is a heck of list, guys. Pay close attention to it because it tells you what women REALLY want and respond to. Compare it to the "I'm the whiney baby who..." list above, and you'll see a striking difference.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS To discover how to be the MAN women can't resist and be the envy of all your male friends, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm now.

Posted by john at 10:19 AM