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July 13, 2006

Here's something inspirational

Dear friends and subscribers,

Here's an inspiring email I recently received:


First and foremost, thanks giving men the information and chance to redeem ourselves with this great information. My life has changed dramatically since I've began using some of your techniques.

Most importantly, my confidence in myself has gone through the roof since I don't have to worry about what women think of me or how I'm going to get them in the sack. If they want it, here it is, but it won't stay to long so you better get it now. I love this attitude and it WORKS!

By the way, the less I have to think about women, the MORE I can work on myself, my business, and improving my LIFE! You are a blessing.

The bottom line is if I take care of me to the max the rest (especially women) will take care of the rest. But first you must have the right information and that's what you give. Again, thanks for giving men the right tools to be the men we were meant to be and not those TV "nice" robot models.

By the way I used your online techinque and profile word for word and look at one of the responses I got:

"I wonder if you really want what you have just asked for. I wonder IF given the opportunity would you do the things that you have said.....I wonder if you are as willing to take a risk on finding the specail one outside of TX....No I don't have a picture posted but can provide one at your request.. No I have not described the type of relationship that I am searching for because I like to let the chips fall where they fall."

Thanks from a customer for life.

Jeffery B.

JA: Jeff, thanks for the great email. It really is amazing when you take care of yourself first, and get your own house in order, how many great things just "happen" for you. Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world, and the stronger you inner world becomes, the more people in general (not just women, but business contacts, friends, etc.) will appear in your life.

And you're right about one thing: you do have to have the right information before you can control your own outcomes. And, luckily, the right information is available at http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:45 PM

My real thoughts on approaching women first

Hey guys,

As all of you guys obviously know, I'm a big fan of engineering "attraction systems" to get women to approach you first. When you know how to do this, you never have to worry about rejection again, because YOU get to make the "rejection decision." You're never worried "if she likes you" because you know for sure she does--she came to you.

But what should you do when you see a woman you're really attracted to, and you just can't seem to get her to approach you? That's the subject of today's episode, and I want to start it with the email that sparked this discussion:

Do You HATE Rejection by Women? Imagine, no more heartbreak, no more rejection by women ever... now they approach you first, no matter your looks, age or income. Discover little-known attraction secrets the mainstream "old media" does NOT want you to know... go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this controversial article is removed.


First, I would like to say that I have mastered most of the techniques in your emails to the point where it's become second nature. In fact, as soon as I see a 8, 9, or 10 (I get to that in a moment), I start using simple and elaborate techniques without even noticing.

Now there is particular girl (a 10) who has become obsessed with me during the past half year. Since I'm a student, most of this takes place during classes. I always find this girl either staring at me or talking about me to her friends, even if I'm only a few feet away. Her friends talk about me when she not there. Basically, most of my graduating class talks about this on a daily basis.

So, the dilemma is that I want her to approach me first since she reads my away messages online and I put up a few cocky and hilarious messages about how all women are pulled into me like gravity and other comment about how women approach me first. I also made a hilarious web page which has become quite popular. Let's just say what I put on it made her tell her friends that she wants to make out with me. Interestingly, other girls started approaching me a lot. I know she read it; I caught her giggling nearby talking about it.

However, she is strangely shy; she does all this among other visual cues, more than half of which I don't pay attention to (which drives crazy and I know she thinks of me as the prize), yet has not ever said hello (though she almost did a few times).

So the question: Should I build more sexual tension until she can't resist or should I take the lead and say hi? And if I say hi, will that conflict with my earlier comments? If I want her to approach me, can I do anything to make her more comfortable around me? She thinks of me as a "cold idol" and "evil" ...LOL!



JA: Thanks for the great email, LZ. Pretty neat how getting women to approach you first quickly becomes "unconscious competence," and really, "who you are," huh? But you bring up a good point--sometimes you will run into women who, for whatever reason, just will not approach a guy first.

I'll tell you a quick story. I have a good friend who's 5'9" blonde, in great shape, is hot and sexy by any measure, is a successful businesswoman, and stubbornly refuses to approach any man, no matter how attracted to him she is.

Of course she's gotten herself in a situation where she's wildly attracted to a guy who's too afraid to make any type of move, although she gives off ALL the signs, and he's dang near in love with her. She's told me how incredibly attracted to him she is, and all the naughty things she wants to do with him (and they are ALL very naughty).

So, she won't make a move, he won't make a move, they give each other "friendly hugs" and that's it, even though both are wildly attracted to the other. I know, I know, it's silly, but this goes on more often than you may think.

Here's my advice: if you think she's attractive, approach her. She's dying for you to, just dying. She's probably talked in detail with her friends about all the things she wants to do with you (women tend to talk about such things in case you didn't know). Women are extremely attracted to confident men who approach them first--they love it, even though many men are scared to do it.

In your case, I'd recommend you approach her in a very sincere manner--"Hey, you strike me as a fun, intelligent woman, and I think I'd enjoy getting to know you better--how can we make that happen?"

The reason I recommend starting with sincere is, she may be just a bit intimidated by you, so you need to put her at ease. She's seen the "cocky, funny, naughty" side of you, now show her the sincere, manly side, then switch between the two. It will drive her crazy with attraction, and you may just end up with a great woman.

Or if she turns out to be "not so great," you can turn to her friend(s) who are obviously standing in line for you.

Congratulations on your mastery of the "women approach you skills" and keep me posted on any success stories.

For those of you guys who want to get your hands on the same information LZ is putting to use to get sexy women to approach him first, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:39 AM