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July 21, 2006

Why looks, age and income don't matter in success with women

Dear friends and subscribers,

I've said it many times. When it comes to success with women, looks don't matter, age doesn't matter, income doesn't matter, and social status doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is if you can make her feel a powerful sense of attraction. That's it. It really is that simple. If you make her feel a powerful sense of attraction she will give up friends, family, food, anything just to be with you. It's that powerful.

See, most men fail with women because they believe this powerful sense of attraction "just happens." Or that if you have looks, money, or social status these things will create attraction. But this is not true. Any man can CREATE attraction for women... if you know how.

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On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:03 PM

It's all about "the feeling"

Hey guys,

When most guys see a woman they find attractive, they go through a thought process that sets them up for failure before they ever even talk to her. Their mind starts thinking, "she won't like me because..." and sure, enough, the woman doesn't like him "because."

"Because" can be anything--looks, age, income, she won't like my friends, I'm not her type, etc., etc. The point is, ANY excuse will do when it comes to failing.

Do you even know the mistakes you make with women? If so, would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

Why do men do this? Because of a fundamental misunderstanding of women. We're conditioned to believe that women are attracted BECAUSE a man has money, looks, social status, friends in high places, etc., etc.

And, "because" we perceive we're lacking in one of those areas, we enter the interaction with a feeling of inadequacy, hoping we'll "get lucky."

But the reality is completely different. Women do not care a whit about looks, age or income (or any other "because")--they care about that wonderful feeling of attraction, what women refer to as "chemistry." Now, in the absence of attraction will they judge a man on looks, age or income? Sure--because that's all he presented them.

BUT... if you present her with attraction, all of the "because's" go out the window. The only thing that matters to a woman is that wonderful feeling of attraction. Ever seen a stunning woman moon over a complete loser with no car, no job, no money, and no future? Everyone has--and the reason is because he made her feel that wonderful feeling.

Before you can succeed with women, you must understand what motivates them, and what motivates them is the feeling of attraction. Learn how to create attraction, and women will literally fight over you, even if you're short, bald, fat and broke.

So, whenever you're talking to a woman, shut off all that other garbage in your head, and replace it with the knowledge that you can have any woman you want as long as you can create attraction.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:59 AM