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July 23, 2006

A remarkable success story-- how a 75 year old man attracted a 35 year old "radiant" woman

Dear friends and subscribers,

Here's a remarkable success story-- from a 75 year old doer!

Hi John,

OK I took your word for it. Tried out your naughty little scheme on of all people - one of the most beautiful cashiers I have seen in many a year. I already knew one of the cashiers and always joked around with her but this cute little darling had a tag on her blouse that read "Ask Me About Anything - and insurance was in small letters under the tag".

So I looked her square in the eye and smiled, said "And when does this happen???". Of course - right away she snapped back "When does what happen?" Then I motioned to the tag on her blouse and smiled again and I hate to say it she blushed like a new born babe. I said right away before she had a chance to collect herself, "I know you are busy and have to work for a few more hours but why don't we go for an ice-cream soda after work???" Without a bit of hesitation she said "where shall I meet you - in the parking lot???" "No why don't I escort you to my horse and carriage from the lobby here".

Needless to say when I seen her coming to meet me I was wrong when I said she was beautiful - she was radiant!!! I really never knew ice cream soda would ever taste so good. Now, we have a trip to Bullhead AZ planned, on my pontoon boat in two weeks. Beginning to believe the buying of that boat was a good investment.

Bob W.

PS I am over 75 and she must be every bit of 35 or less - what a beauty. Yea I am approaching ugly and working on broke!!!

JA: Bob, thanks for the fantastic success story--most 30 year old guys with money have a lot to learn from you. You're probably the first man who acts like a man she's met in a long time, and she's happy to spend time with you because you're doing what few other men have the guts to do or know how to do--engage in the behavior that creates attraction. Congratulations on your success, and keep me posted on future success stories.

Guys, I'll keep saying it until I'm blue in the face--looks don't matter, age, doesn't matter and income doesn't matter. All that matters is your ability to create attraction, like Bob has done, and this is an ability any man can quickly and easily master. To discover how you can get results like Bob has, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

On with the fun..

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Hey, you don't have to be 75 years old to attract desirable women--you can be any age! Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover how to attract the women you desire right now

Posted by john at 04:02 PM

Do you set yourself up for failure or success with women?

Hey guys,

Every time I do a radio interview I get the same question: "OK, so you teach guys how to get women to approach them first. Let's say I go into a bar, how do I get women to approach me first?"

Now, when I say I get this question every time, I'm not exaggerating. I get it every time, and every time I give the same answer: "you've already set yourself up for failure, so your chances of getting women to approach you are between slim and none."

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

Why have they set themselves up for failure? Because they automatically assume that when you want to attract women, you go to a bar--which probably explains why they're NOT successful with women.

Now, don't get me wrong--it's possibly to meet, attract, and pick up women at bars and clubs, and a whole cottage industry has sprung up, teaching men how to do that. Is it a useful skill to learn? Sure--but it's a very narrow skill to learn, and it can be a dangerous skill to learn.

Why? Think about it. Let's say you master meeting women in bars.
Every night you go out and meet a different woman. Where are you in a year? The same place you started, except that you've picked up a lot of women and consumed a lot of alcohol. Not much "equity" built.

In Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill mentions two fascinating things about attracting women and success. He says most men don't become successful until their fifties because they spend most of their time up to that point misusing their "sex energy" in chasing women.

He also says that one of the big reasons why men fail is improper selection of mate. I'd agree 100% with both statements.

That's why when it comes to succeeding with women, I advise men to look beyond bars and clubs. Nothing wrong with having a good time every now and then, but you can pee away a lot of years by spending all your time there.

When I get the "bar" question, it immediately tells me two things about the person asking the question: 1) They have no clue what "succeeding with women" means to them. They're just chasing cars, hoping to "get lucky." 2) Because they have no definition of success, they head to the place where "success" is the hardest to fine. They equate "succeeding with women" to "going to bars."

A better way to think about it is this: first sit down and decide what success with women means to you. It may mean attracting a woman for a long term relationship, it may be spending time with carefully screened women you share adventures (but not commitments) with, or it may mean picking up women at bars. For most of you it will not, but for some of you it will.

Once you have your own personal definition of success, the path is clear on where you should go (and not go) to attract the women YOU desire. Once you have the picture in your mind of the woman (or woman) you want to attract, all you have to do is make a list of places where women with those characteristics are likely to be found, then put yourself in positions that give you the greatest probability of finding them.

Bars are usually not those places, and the more time you spend there, the less likely it is you're going to meet the woman (or women) who fit your definition of success (unless the type of women you want to attract are those who hang around at bars).

The point is this: if you want to succeed with women, you must set yourself up for success before taking any action. Otherwise you're just going to chasing cars, watching the years pass away while getting nothing done, like most men who "live lives of quiet desperation."

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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PPS Ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm now.

Posted by john at 10:57 AM