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July 27, 2006

It's selling out fast... don't be left out

Dear friends and subscribers,

My Big Savings Clearance Event is in full swing, and items are flying off the shelves--in fact, I'm close to running out of several popular items (my King's Keys and Secrets of Personal Authority Package), so if you have a particular product of mine you've had your eye on for awhile, this is your opportunity to get it.

The event page is located at: http://www.johnalanis.com/clearance.htm and it ends for good tomorrow Friday, July 28 IF everything is not gone before then (like I said, some items are close to being gone). 36,823 people have gotten this email, so it's imperative you hurry.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Again, to claim your savings, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/clearance.htm

PPS Keep in mind the savings at this event are not "retroactive"--if you recently took action and invested in one of my products, use this opportunity to add to your library at a discount. School's never out for the pro, especially when it comes to attracting women.

Posted by john at 04:48 PM

He has looks, money and height yet he can't get a date. Why?

Hey guys,

Before we get started, I want to remind everyone about my Big Savings Inventory Clearance Event, happening right now, but ending tomorrow Friday, July 26, 2006. It's been crazy so far, and I'm getting close to running out of stock on several items. For all the exciting savings, and to claim your discount before others do, just go to http://www.johnalanis.com/clearance.htm right now.

On with today's episode. I received an email from a man who's got a great job, makes lots of money, was blessed with height and good looks and can't attract women to save his life. Why not? Read his email below and then my solution to discover the answer.

Do you even know the mistakes you make with women? If so, would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.


Read your email and thank you for it. However maybe I missed the point; how does a man get a woman to approach him. I happen to be a 42 year old guy; 6'3", looks of Ben Afflect or Tom Cruise. Despite that I suck with woman. Yea they look at me. they check me out worse or more intensely than the guys who leer at girls. Yet I never get laid. If I talk to a girl I get one word answers at my attempts at rapport.

I've tried to tease them, be cocky funny. They don't usually respond. They seem to with other guys though. I don't understand why they seem to get very serious or offended.

Basically I never get past a few sentences until I get a sense they want to get away from me. Like I said, to the looks, dress, hygiene, polish (I 'm very clean cut polished attorney). what can you advise?

Thank you.


Bruce G.

JA: Bruce, thanks for the email. Many guys who don't understand attraction would read your personal description and think you should have women fighting over you--but that's because they don't understand how attraction works.

Although I haven't observed how you interact with women in person, I can make a few very educated guesses about why they're not responding to you. The first one is this--they can sense that you're "trying" to tease them, "trying to be cocky/funny" instead of naturally doing it. They can sense your doubt in your abilities, and they can feel your awkwardness and both of those kill attraction dead.

You're trying to do too much at once with learning attraction--but that's good news because it's easily fixed. Here's what you do. Sit down and practice just a few things that make you naturally laugh. Then, whenever you see a woman, all I want you to do is smile at her and say one thing to her. Your goal is to get her to smile back at you. That's it. What should you say? Something you personally are comfortable with, and you personally enjoy saying.

For example, I like to say to a woman while I smile my naughty boy smile and she smiles back, "Well what are YOU smiling about?" They always respond well. So, what I want you to do is focus on this one small piece of the attraction puzzle. Forget about anything else until you've mastered this. It won't take you long, and it will do wonders for your self image. Then, once you're too the point where you expect women to always react positively to you, take the next step and tease them for a few minutes in a way YOU enjoy doing. Then move onto the next step.

This step by step method builds your self image so YOU begin to see yourself as a man who's naturally attractive to women. Then all your doubt will disappear, and you'll have a different problem--too many women vying for your attention.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't miss out on my Big Savings Inventory Clearance Event happening right now--go to http://www.johnalanis.com/clearance.htm for details.

Posted by john at 10:43 AM