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August 03, 2006

Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues?

Dear friends and subscribers,

As you know, there are two types of people in this world, talkers and doers. And there are two things that separate the two. One, is obviously taking action. In order to be a doer and get the results you desire in life, you must take action. There is no way around that.

However, did you know there are lots of talkers who do take action, but never get the results they say they want? They look busy, they appear busy, they "do" things, but they never get any results. Why is this? Why are they really talkers even though they "take action?"

The answer is simple: they do not have the right information to base their action on. And, when their action fails, they do the same old thing over and over and then go talk about the lack of results.

The true doer "calibrates" when he or she takes action and doesn't get the results they desire. They look at what they did, they find out where they lack knowledge, then they go out and get that knowledge. Then, and only then, do they take action again, this time a different action. And they continue to go through this cycle of taking action and acquiring information until they get the results they desire. Sometimes this takes a long, long time and the price is high. But the outcome is ALWAYS the same in the end--the doer gets the results he desires.

If you want to be a true doer and control all your outcomes in life with women and relationships, I can offer you the correct information, information that has been tested and proven through my investment, trial and error. What I can't do is get you to take action. That's up to you. But, if you're an action-taker, and all you need is the right information, I can provide that for you. To get that "right information," and step up to the Big Leagues forever, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

I look forward to seeing you in the Majors!

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't delay--this is your chance to be "called up," and change your life forever. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm at once.

Posted by john at 04:52 PM

How to turn a friend into a lover

Hey guys,

I got a good question from a man today regarding an age old problem men have with women--turning a "friend" into a lover. Just about every guy has been stuck with a beautiful woman as a "friend" and when he tells her he wants more, he gets the "I really value our friendship and wouldn't want to do anything to hurt it" speech, which all men detest.

Is there a solution to this problem? Yes, there is. It's not easy, it takes time, and it does not work 100% of the time, but it works often enough to get results.

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King

Been gettin your mail for a while know, still tryin to buy a product but as poor college student who's gotten into the habit of eating i can't get one yet. It seems the women I had tried to date before I started getting your advice became more like friends yet I didn't have to change much to get the Naughty Boy part down, all my jokes are off color, I know how to be off color and use authoritative humor in any situation to make a women laugh at my command. My personal best is turning around others jokes onto them or making them better, extending them. My question is, now that I have the skill to get the women of my choice, (to some extent that is, as I am currently to poor to buy the products) could this work on my lady friends. I sometimes feel like a pimp, being surrounded by 8 beautiful women at a time, but I want one or two of them to be more then friends with. Is it doable? Can a person turn there closest friends into there lovers?

Thanks for your time.

Andrew

JA: Good to hear from you Andrew, and congratulations on improving your skills to the point where you're getting consistent results. I predict a lot of fun in your future.

Anyways, what you describe is a common problem for men after they learn how to create attraction--they still have female "friends" in their life who think of them as a nice guy or a safe friend, when they really want more. Turning a friend into a lover is difficult and time consuming... but not impossible.

Here's what you do. Start spending less time with them, and more time with women you're dating. When you do talk to them, tell them how much their "friendship" means to you and how you think of them like your "little sister." After you've limited your time with them, start engaging in attraction creation behavior around them, all the while telling them how you could never date them. Tease them about this, and tell them to quit hitting on you. Then leave and go spend time with the women you are dating. Each time you see them, get a bit more aggressive, but cut it off telling them in a teasing voice, "now, now, we're just friends, and you really shouldn't think of me as anything else."

Over time some of them will start to become attracted to you. Not all will, but some will. What they'll tell you is their feelings of attraction "just happened." My ass, you created them! It's important to realize though that this process takes time and that you let them become attracted to you. If you "confess your feelings" to them, then you'll be a friend for life. But if you stick to the process, all of a sudden you will have the option to be lovers with all your female friends... if they qualify, of course!

On with the fun....


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"


PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 10:49 AM