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August 14, 2006

Why are women suddenly approaching this man?

Dear friends and subscribers,

Here's a great success story from a man who took action, invested in my Ultimate System, and is getting results... even though he hasn't even finished listening to all the CD's!


I don't know if you can mention this on your email list or not, but I'm up to CD #8 and going to be listening to #9 tonight...

I will tell you that I'm VERY pleased to have bought your product, it's amazing, shows me many things I've never thought of or realized, and, it has also pieced together some pieces of my own puzzle...

I want to listen to all of your material before going full throttle, but I have been talking to women, and internalizing the thought processes you seemed to be talking about, and women seem to be coming out of nowhere I'm meeting a new one at least every 3 days and like i said, i haven't gone full throttle or online yet.

VERY powerful stuff John,...

my question is, could you elaborate on the 'bad boy' stuff (i've got the understanding part down...(soon to be ex-nice guy) meaning what is bad boy material but not over the line, TOO immature, the line of tastelessness, can you be TOO cocky...basically as far as content....how to NOT do too little of the stuff, but not go over?

Thanks for your help.

PS -guys you should get this course!

JA: Thanks for the email, Garret, and congratulations on your success. What you describe is one of the main "surprise benefits" of my system--when you start taking action with what I teach, women really do suddenly come out of nowhere.

As far as elaborating on the "bad boy," I have the perfect product being released tomorrow that demonstrates exactly how employ the "naughty boy" with women. It's my Real Conversations with Real Women Eavesdrop CD's where I talk live with 12 different women, creating attraction with them while you listen in. This product will be released to my VIP list tomorrow, and then, if any of the 299 are left, I will release it to my general list on Tuesday, August 22, 2006. Stay tuned...

To get your hands on the same system Garret's using, and live an unlimited lifetime of power and success with women, go to: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and win a life of power and success with women? If so, then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 04:18 PM

How to prevent the impending destruction of your relationship

Hey guys,

Very quickly, I want to remind you of tomorrow's events. Tuesday, August 15 at 2:00 PM Central I am finally releasing my Real Conversations with Real Women Eavesdrop CD's... but only to my VIP List (which is now closed off).

I am only going to be releasing 299 copies, and VIP members get first crack at them. If there are any left over, on Tuesday, August 22, 2006 at 2:00 PM Central I will release the rest to the members of my general list (currently 41,467 and growing daily).

If you missed yesterday's free gift, the report entitled "The Strangest Attraction Secret," you can still read it at: http://www.johnalanis.com/strange.pdf

This report will help you understand how to best use what you hear in my Real Conversations with Real Women Eavesdrop CD's (provided they don't sell out). I'll keep you apprised of the progress of this product throughout the week, and I'll let you know how many will be available (if any) on Tuesday, August 22, 2006.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with today's lesson--it has to do with preventing strife within a relationship from the beginning... plus, how any 50 year old man can attract younger women.


I met my wife nearly 30 years ago. When I called her from the office for a first date, I asked if she liked pizza, and she said she did. "Good. I'll pick you up at 7:30. Gotta get back to work."

Years later, she told me she had that she had already decided that she wasn't going to go out with me... but she had always wanted to be asked out that way.

Anyway, she fell in with a group of women whose hobby was sitting around and berating their husbands. Then came the time when nothing that was done right if it wasn't done the way she would do it, and I couldn't do anything right (in her eyes).

I told her (years ago) that I had two choices. I could either let her drag me down, or I could tune her out, and I wasn't going to let her drag me down.

After years of fighting and several affairs, we reached a truce a few years ago, but the marriage if far beyond salvage -- and at this point neither of us would want to fix it. (Finances, including kids in college, have delayed a divorce.)

Two questions:

1) How do you prevent a marriage reaching that point? (It's too late for this one, but I have seen it happen with others many times.)

2) Any special tips or techniques for a married guy in his late 50s who's looking for attractive, younger women who just want to have fun?\

At this point, obviously, the second question is the more important.


JA: Thanks for the email, Dave. First off, the way you initially attracted your wife is a great demonstration of personal authority and obviously created attraction.

Your questions are good ones, and I'll start with the first one. The best way to make sure a marriage never reaches that point is to be sure the woman you're marrying is suited for you. Napoleon Hill (of Think and Grow Rich) said that one of the reasons men fail is improper selection of mate. You have to look past the initial attraction and be sure you and her share the same hopes, dreams, desires, outlooks on life as well as similar ways of resolving conflict. She also has to be someone you're best friends with, someone you enjoy being with after the initial attraction has faded.

Once you're in the marriage it's important you involve her in your life. Like your best friend, she should be the one you want to spend time doing things with. Involve her in all decisions, ask her opinion on things, and make sure she knows you value her involvement. If she's not involved, and you treat her as a sidebar, she'll eventually wind up taking advice from miserable or jealous friends and the marriage will disintegrate. Involvement and initial selection are two major keys to a lasting relationship.

As far as any techniques for a guy in his late 50's who's looking for fun younger girls, let me refer you to the best of the best, my good friend Chet E. Rowland. Chet's in his early 50's, and I have never met a guy (even me) who is as good with women of all ages as he is. He's finally put together a unique system that reveals step by step literally how older men can attract younger women--he even gives you cut and paste emails, scripts, and chat's of him attracting women. I've know Chet since way before he even thought to come out with a product, and all I can tell you is, what I've seen him do with women is unbelievable (until you see it). But, everything he does is learnable by any man, and he reveals it all in Chet's Dating System. See http://www.chetsdatingsystem.com/cmd.asp?Clk=1445098 for details, and don't say I didn't warn you.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to choose your own relationships with the women you desire on your terms? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 10:14 AM