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August 20, 2006

Chase or attract, which do you prefer?

Dear friends and subscribers,

There's nothing more frustrating than wondering if a woman "likes you," then pursuing her, trying to get her to notice you, even date you. How does it usually end? By her going off with a guy who she was "attracted to," a guy who never showed any interest in her at all.

Why would she do this? Because the guy who supposedly "showed no interest" actually knew how to create attraction, and she came to him, instead of him chasing her. Trust me, that's a much better way to go, for both men and women--if you'd like to discover how to "stop chasing" and start attracting, then simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm and discover how to get women to approach YOU first, no matter your looks, age, or income.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the big leagues and live a lifetime of success and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

PPS Real Conversations with Real Women launches Tuesday, August 22, 2006 at 2:00 PM Central...

Posted by john at 04:19 PM

Should you be naughty forever?

Hey guys,

It looks like all the VIP members who are going to get their hands on my Real Conversations with Real Women Eavesdrop CD's have done so, so I will definitely have some to release to you on Tuesday, August 22, 2006. As it stands right now, I have 79 Basic sets remaining, and 29 Deluxe--the VIP list snatched up 111 Basic Systems and 70 Deluxe, so I anticipate the remaining will sell out very fast when I release them

My general list has, as of this writing, 42,663 members, so if you want to get your hands on this system, be standing by at 2 PM Central, this Tuesday, August 22, 2006. It's possible these may not last until the evening. Be prepared. Now, on with today's lesson...

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Today I want to start with a question sent in by a woman on this list--it is a very good question, something you men who want a long term relationship (and most do) need to pay close attention to.


You give excellent advice to all the beautiful man in the world. Some have learned it very well. I know one particular one. I'm not sure if he just has it on his own accord ( a natural as you would say) or if he has read your stuff. Why is it that it never seems to be turned off? All the girls love him. He's naughty and charming, sweet and strong all at the same time. He knows how to make woman feel good. There's a few of us girls that he gives special attention to over other girls. I happen to be one of them. Doesn't there come a time when enough is enough and the naughty boy wants true love? How do you tame a naughty boy?


JA: Thanks for the email, Daisy--it is a very good question. If you ever "tame" a naughty boy, you'll quit being attracted to him the instant he is tame. What I teach guys to do--and this is important--is not be "just a naughty boy." It is important to have that as an element of your personality, but keep in mind women are attracted over the long term to men, not boys. You need to balance the naughty boy side with serious, goal oriented side, and have the ability to shift back and forth between the two. She needs to know you're a man with a naughty boy side. Naughty boys never want true love--but real men do... and knowing and practicing the difference between the two is crucial.

Thanks for the email Daisy--I encourage all the women on the list to contribute and offer your point of view. When you do email me though, please send a picture so I'll know whose writing to me. All pictures are kept private, of course, but desirable women sending me pictures IS one of the benefits of being the King!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS At last! Here's how to have the relationships you want with the women you desire, without all the pain, misery and emotional turmoil, only happiness and joy. Want to know how? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:14 AM