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Austin, TX
-Robert O., Marketing Consultant
Toronto, Canada
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August 30, 2006
How do you see yourself?
Hey guys,
Recently I received several emails from guys talking about how weak, shallow, and unhealthy they are. Now to their credit, they say they want to get these issues handled, so they can attract women, but the bigger issue is not the behavior, it's the belief behind the behavior.
Beliefs are incredibly powerful, more so than most people think. If you believe you're unattractive, you are. If you truly believe you're attractive to women, you are.
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Women have a way of picking up on a man's belief system. If you have a weak, wimpy self image, a woman will know it immediately, and will not be attracted to you, no matter if you do have looks and money. On the other hand, if you genuinely believe you're attractive to women, they cannot resist you. That's why some of the ugliest, brokest men attract some of the hottest women (Tommy Lee?!?)
Fake it 'til you make it does not work when it comes to attraction. Women do not want--and are not attracted to--a man with fake beliefs. They can sense the faking, and you'll never get to the making.
The good news is, you can change your beliefs. The best way is through setting a goal, breaking it into small, attainable milestones, developing the skill set to attain those milestones by investing in good information and taking action with it, then reinforcing the new beliefs with results. Results are what cement beliefs, which is why it is important to break down any goal into a series of small, attainable results that build on each other.
When you're first starting out with attraction you may not be able to walk up to any woman you see and create attraction with her. That's a skill and belief set that's developed over time. BUT... you sure as heck can smile at a distance from that same woman, and have her return that smile, the first step in attraction. From there it's a short ways towards saying something to her, and an even shorter way from there to continuing the conversation, as your belief set builds.
There's really no magic to the skill of attraction. All it takes is belief building, studying, taking action, and a bit of hard work. Most men are afraid of the last part--hard work. But if you're willing to do it, you'll discover the "work" ain't so hard after all--and the results are WAY more than worth it.
On with the fun--
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
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