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September 02, 2006

Proof women really will approach you first

Dear friends and subscribers,

Here's an interesting email I recently received. Pay close attention because there are some things to learn from this one:

John,

Bought your system last week, and I was a bit skeptical. I'm not now! I recognized myself when reading your "sales pitch" about how men screw up when dealing with women and thought I could do for a confidence booster. Since I'll be soon giving sales presentations for my company, I thought "What the heck, if this builds my confidence around people, and more specifically, women, then it's worth the money". John, it's been a week and IT'S ALREADY WORKING!! Let me tell you a short story:

This morning I went to a coffee shop with one of my buddies. I was there for coffee, not meeting women. While in line, I made eye contact with a pretty girl who was studying. She smiled. I smiled your "naughty boy" smile back and she smiled more. Then I got my coffee. Unfortunately there were no chairs. I was about to go outside when she CAME OVER TO ME and said "Hey, there's a couple extra chairs, you can sit at my table if you don't mind my studying". So I did. I proceeded to ignore her completely and talked with my buddy.

Suddenly, she broke in with "Say, I couldn't help but overhear" and started to ignore her studies (and my buddy) in favor of talking to me. Seems she loved that topic too. So what did I do? I told her "Sounds like you feel very passionately about that. Why is that?". MAN!!! PURE MAGIC! After that I just let her talk. Everything you mentioned in your system happened almost exactly as you said it would. The great part was at NO TIME did I approach her for anything. She invited me to her table. She invited herself into my conversation. And it was clear that she was attracted. I didn't get another meeting with her because I didn't want one. She was fun to talk with, but I found myself thinking "Wow, if it's this easy, I can be picky". We parted ways with an "intimate handshake" and one of those "looks". What a great way to start the day.

Thanks!

Dave

JA: Congratulations on your success, Dave! You're quite correct--when you know how to get women to approach you first, YOU get to be the one who chooses whether or not to pursue the relationship. In other words, you never get rejected by women because you're the one making the "rejection decision."

Yes, getting women to approach you first no matter your looks, age or income really is that easy. To succeed like Dave, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Imagine, no more heartbreak or rejection by women ever again-- see http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for details.

Posted by john at 04:52 PM

"It" vs "I"-- why one succeeds and the other fails

Hey guys,

Although I do get a lot of email and a lot of letters mailed to me, I do sit down and read my correspondence. Not all of it by a long shot mind you, but a good enough sample to keep an eye on what's going on in my business.

The most interesting part of reading the "white mail" is seeing the commonalities between different groups of people- those who take action and get results with my material, and those who sit on the sidelines and do nothing.

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Every success story I've ever received is filled with the word "I." I got your system, I listened to it, I took action, and I got this result.

Every failure story I've ever received is filled with the word "it." "It" didn't work for me. Do you see the difference between the two just based on language?

One takes responsibility for outcomes, the other lays the blame elsewhere. Now, keep in mind, both are writing me about the exact same material. One succeeds wildly with it "the I guy" and the other does nothing with it, "the it guy."

Successful people refer to themselves and their outcomes in terms of "I." They take responsibility for their outcomes, and realize they are in control of them. They welcome the fact that everything is their fault, because they realize they have control over what happens in their lives.

The "it" guys blame everyone and every thing but themselves. They have no control over their lives, always chasing the magical "it" that will change their lives forever, not realizing the only "it" is high. Some of these guys do learn, but some never do. That's why I ban guys like this from my business whenever I hear from them--I have no use for them whatsoever, and they take away valuable learning time from all my "I" guys.

So, be sure you think in terms of "I" not in terms of "it"--when you take responsibility for all your outcomes in life, that's when success comes your way.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to choose your own relationships and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:49 AM