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September 04, 2006

The strangest attraction secret

Dear friends and subscribers,

Many years ago a man named Earl Nightengale gave the following advice about how to be successful, "Observe what the majority of people are doing, and then do the opposite." It was good advice then, and it's good advice now. Look at what most men do with women--ask them on dates, act like "nice guys," buy them gifts, etc., etc. And what are the results most men get with women?

REJECTION! Painful, embarrassing, humiliating, rejection! But, it doesn't have to be this way. Now, there is a new system that teaches me to do the opposite of what most men do... and get the opposite results of what most men get. Results like women approaching you first... women buying you expensive gifts... women fighting with each other to spend time with you, and more, much more. To discover how to do the opposite of what most men do, just go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 03:22 PM

There's this one special girl...

Hey guys,

One of the most common emails I get goes like this: "John, there's this one special girl I know who I want more than anything in the world. How can I make her love me?"

Whenever I hear this, I know there's no way that 1) I can help the guy because he hasn't been paying attention (or invested in my materials) and 2) she'll ever be attracted to him.

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Keep in mind that women are very sensitive to a man's internal emotional state. If they sense neediness, scarcity or desperation, they run immediately. If they sense strength, authority and naughtiness, they'll run--right to you.

One of the basic things I teach is this: do NOT link your emotional fulfillment to one woman. Your emotional fulfillment should be linked to what's inside you, and expanded by a type of woman.

See, if you link your fulfillment to "one special girl" you immediately adopt a scarcity mentality, and give her all the power over your emotional outcomes. That's two strikes against you in a one strike game--you're broadcasting desperation AND you've given the authority over to her.

Now, I'm NOT saying that you shouldn't get married or be in an exclusive relationship. Not at all--that's all well and good. What I am saying is, you want your attitude to be "if something happens with or to this woman, I have the ability to easily attract another of my choosing."

When a woman senses that attitude (and it's an attitude based on developing the skill of attraction, not a phony belief), she feels the strength, confidence and power in you and feels comforted. She feels like she's with a MAN, not a whiney, blubbery little baby who's emotional diaper constantly needs changing.

It's a subtle shift, but it's very important: there is NOT "one special girl," there are lots of special girls, and when you develop the SKILL of attraction, you get to choose the most special. And if she turns out not to be so special (or something happens to her), then you can allow another, even more special one into your life.

The shift in thinking is subtle, but it's the difference between broadcasting scarcity (a turn off) and broadcasting abundance (an attractant).

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to get rid of all the scarcity in your life, and replace it with abundance? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:19 AM