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September 05, 2006

Gets rid of embarrassing rejection forever

Dear friends and subscribers,

If you've ever been rejected by a woman who you know should be attracted to you, you know what a horrible, gut wrenching feeling it is. It makes you question yourself, makes you wonder if you're really attractive to women.

Luckily, there is a new way to get rid of rejection forever, and it works no matter your looks, age, or income. What is this "rejection removal secret?" Simply this: for her to approach you first! Think about it--when she approaches you, you're the one who gets to make the "rejection decision," not her!

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On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:59 PM

Confess your feelings... or keep 'em guessing?

Hey guys,

A few days ago I was talking with a female friend of mine regarding some of the dates she'd been on lately. Like many women, she was griping about how unattractive (and wimpy) most men are today.

Her biggest complaint, however, had to do with what I call "the second date confession of feelings." Here's how it goes...

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A guy meets a woman, she's attracted to him (usually by dumb luck, not any skill on his part), they go out, and she's interested in seeing him again. He thinks to himself, "this it--I've finally met the girl of my dreams... a woman who actually likes me."

Thinking that this is the only woman in the world for him, he does what he sees in every chick flick and TV show: he shows up for the second meeting, and "confesses his feelings" to her, expecting to get the same reaction he sees on TV.

He does not--and in fact discovers that TV-land is dead wrong about attraction. Usually he gets an awkward moment and she says, "That's nice" or nothing at all. Then he never hears from her again.

Why is this? Because there's no mystery, intrigue, excitement or authority. He's throwing himself at her feet begging her to "pick me, pick me." This is a complete turnoff for women, but unfortunately a common experience.

That's what my friend told me. She said, "I'm sick of all these sensitive nice guys. I know they mean well, but there's just no chemistry there. I'd just like to meet a man who'll smack me on the ass, and call me a biy-atch."

What she's saying is she wants to meet a naughty, fun, self assured man with a strong sense of personal authority, one who will keep her guessing and add some excitement to her life. She's tired of the same old stuff over and over. Give her what she wants, and she'll give you what she wants.

Now, does that mean you never tell a woman how you feel about her? Of course not. When you've been together for awhile, appear to be a good match, and are obviously heading towards a relationship, then it is very important you tell her how you feel--in a strong, manly way, of course. But don't do it after you've just met her--it's the best way to guarantee you'll never see her again.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to choose your own relationships and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:51 AM