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September 12, 2006

Who else is ready to step up to the Big Leagues?

Dear friends and subscribers,

As you know, there are two types of people in this world, talkers and doers. And there are two things that separate the two. One, is obviously taking action. In order to be a doer and get the results you desire in life, you must take action. There is no way around that.

However, did you know there are lots of talkers who do take action, but never get the results they say they want? They look busy, they appear busy, they "do" things, but they never get any results. Why is this? Why are they really talkers even though they "take action?"

The answer is simple: they do not have the right information to base their action on. And, when their action fails, they do the same old thing over and over and then go talk about the lack of results.

The true doer "calibrates" when he or she takes action and doesn't get the results they desire. They look at what they did, they find out where they lack knowledge, then they go out and get that knowledge. Then, and only then, do they take action again, this time a different action. And they continue to go through this cycle of taking action and acquiring information until they get the results they desire. Sometimes this takes a long, long time and the price is high. But the outcome is ALWAYS the same in the end--the doer gets the results he desires.

If you want to be a true doer and control all your outcomes in life with women and relationships, I can offer you the correct information, information that has been tested and proven through my investment, trial and error. What I can't do is get you to take action. That's up to you. But, if you're an action-taker, and all you need is the right information, I can provide that for you. To get that "right information," and step up to the Big Leagues forever, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

I look forward to seeing you in the Majors!

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't delay--this is your chance to be "called up," and change your life forever. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm at once.

Posted by john at 04:07 PM

What not to do

Hey guys,

One of the best things I ever learned in business was this: "if you want to be successful, simply observe what others are doing, and do the opposite. Most people are unsuccessful--if you don't want to be like them, don't do the things they do."

I'll tell you something funny: this advice works even better when it comes to attracting women (or re-attracting them if you're in a relationship). Why? Because most men continue to unknowingly engage in behavior that simply kills attraction. If you stop this behavior, you'll instantly be eons more attractive to women, if you don't engage in any attractive behavior.

So, today I thought I'd tell you what not to do, so you can be sure to avoid it.

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First off, don't wonder if she "likes you." That's giving control of the interaction to her (which women hate), and letting her define the authority. Women can sense a man wondering--she should wonder if you like her.

Secondly, don't tell her you like her, or confess your feelings. Women love mystery, suspense, anticipation and trying to figure out if you like her--don't take that away from her and kill the attraction. Give her the gift of uncertainty.

Don't ask a woman for her "phone number." This fires off an anchor, bringing up all the memories of every wimp and waldo who's ever begged her for the digits, and links it to you. Give her the
opportunity to continue the conversation at another time, set the time, then exchange contact information, and expect her to show up.

Don't you dare set a "maybe date." What's that? It's one of those deals where she tells you to "call to confirm." That's a test and if you agree, you fail.

Don't go on a date. Again, it brings up memories of every bad experience she's ever had with a myriad of losers. Meet for coffee--it's fun, pressure free, and it's cheap.

Don't bring her gifts, give her compliments, or do anything to win her favor. Again, this takes all the uncertainty out of her life, and deprives her of the mystery and suspense of wondering if you like her. Women love mystery and suspense, even if us guys hate it. That's just how the world works.

Don't hold back what you say around her. She can sense this. If she's offended, that's her problem, and you need to find someone more suited. But, unless you're being a wuss, I've met very few women who are offended by strong style. They're offended by wusses trying to be strong, but not by men.

Don't brag, boast, or try to impress her. Women have heard it all, and really don't care about your big house, or how much money you make, or your boat, or any of that stuff. They just want to feel attraction. Confidence? Yes. Brashness? Yep. Cockiness? Oh yeah. But not hollow bragging or boasting--they can get that at any bar full of beer bellies working on the third round.

If you want a rule of thumb about what to avoid doing, I'll give you one: avoid any behaviors that kill mystery, suspense, anticipation, or that allow her to define authority in the interaction. Do that, and you'll be just fine.

Oh, and if you want to know what TO DO (and be incredibly attractive to women), just go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now. It's unbelievable how good your life can be, when you know what to do AND what not to do.

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Tired of letting other people control your outcomes in life and with women? Put a stop to it right now with my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System, and step up to the Big Winners Circle-- go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now before this website is removed.

Posted by john at 10:07 AM