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September 13, 2006

A woman speaks out on authority

Dear friends and subscribers,

As many of you know, awhile back I released a new product entitled, "Secrets of Personal Authority: How to Get Other People (Especially Sexy Women) to Want to Do What You Want Them to Do" (see http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm ) I've got a lot of doers who took action, got their hands on the product, and are getting great results (and one talker who, instead of taking action, is whining and about to be banned).

But, I have gotten a few guys asking me, "what do women think about authority?" Well, I have the answer for you in black and white, from one of my long time female readers--here's the email she sent in:

Hi John,

When will men understand that FOXY WOMEN WILL RESPOND TO ANY MAN -WITHIN REASON -AS LONG AS HE DEFINES AUTHORITY. I COULD SCREAM IT FROM THE ROOF -WE JUST WANT MEN TO BE MEN- WE JUST WANT MEN TO EMBODY MALENESS.TAKE CHARGE-make it your mantra just remember to be very nice as well and you have a winning formula.

IN ADDITION THE PERFECT GUY IN A WOMENS EYES ALSO CONFIDES AND TAKES ADVICE..says things like..what do you think..what should I do...

MUSIC TO THE EARS OF ATTRACTIVE POWERFUL WOMEN: If spoken lightly....

NO,NOT NOW,I AM GOING TO TAKE YOU..COULD YOU PLEASE SIT DOWN..

DARLING I NEED YOU TO..SWEETNESS WILL YOU CONTROL YOURSELF..PRECIOUS COME HERE NOW..


THIS IS WHAT WE ARE GOING TO DO MY TREASURE...GET OVER HERE AND GIVE ME A KISS... YOU ARE SO SWEET...AND..

IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HER HOT IN A HURRY ..AND CHASING YOU OUT THE DOOR..BANG YOUR FIST ON THE TABLE AND SAY ..SIT ON MY LAP NOW AND TELL ME WANT YOU THINK AND WHAT I SHOULD DO ABOUT.....

Attractive and powerful women do not respond to references to their appearance because...obvious ..and .. they are hyper attentive already to their appearance. Instead draw attention and show respect and appreciation to the person they have worked very hard in becoming.

This is my free advice feel free to quote me in your wonderful news letter.

you lead she'll follow

Sincerely,
Desiree-

JA: Desiree, thanks for the great email--I couldn't have said it better myself. Guys if you read through her email, you'll notice she's referring to what I call "switching"--rapidly transitioning from one aspect of your personality to another--in this case from authoritative to "naughty-sincere." This is the power of authority, as revealed by a woman.

Women love men with personal authority. They crave them, especially in this age of "sensitivity" and wussiness. Give her what she wants, and she'll give you what you want.

To discover how to become the authoritative man women can't resist, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm right now.

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Like Desiree said, if you can't define authority, you can't create attraction. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm now.

Posted by john at 04:48 PM

Why men fail with women

Hwy guys,

You know, it never ceases to amaze me. One man reads my website, takes action, invests in my products and gets results beyond his imagination, and another reads the website, dismisses it as a "scam" (whatever that means), and then goes and does the same old things he always does with women, whining about the same old results.

Same website, same opportunity for success, yet vastly different outcomes. What's the difference? The way each man views the world, and the actions he takes based on that world view. Today I'm going to share an email with you from a man not getting results, and I think you'll see from reading what he has to say why he has no chance of succeeding with women, at least not until he changes his view of the world. Read on... I'm going to be hard on him, for his own good.

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I have heard this claim from many other so called "experts" and so far, all have failed. All the lines, clothing, moves, and the list goes on from the experts on how to be successful with women. I have wasted my money on at least 30 books, videos on techniques that "never fail", or lines that work on any woman. I have read on where to meet, find, talk and approach women. I tryed them, and ALL of them failed. So I am not pumped to run and buy into your system.

Before I even think of giving you a dime, I must have absolute, 100% guaranteed proof thay your system works. So don't send me all the success stories from 50+ guys that say that they love it and would recommend it to any guy who wants success with any women on the planet. I must see that it works for me.

So I give you this challenge. Send all your info, books video, tapes etc ( for free). I will field test it to see if it does what you claim it does. If it fails, I will send it all back and you can sell it to some other sucker. But, if it works, I will give you double the money. Are you up for the challenge? If you are, e-mail me and I'll tell you where to send the info. If not, then your product isn't what you claim it to be.

Don't sing it, bring it!!!

Do you accept the challenge, or do you fold?

T. Lawless

JA: Well, "T. Lawless," I can see by your email you have no relation to Blackie Lawless (of W.A.S.P.)--he was quite successful with women. Let's see why you're not.

First off, you say, "I have heard this claim from other experts and all have failed." Uhhh, no. THEY have not failed, YOU have failed to properly implement and take action with what their information. Instead of thinking, "How can I make this information work for me" you're determined that "IT won't work, because..." Like most men who don't get results, you are putting the responsibility on IT and not YOU. That's strike one, and the truth is, with that attitude, you're finished with women before you even get started. They pick up on your failure attitude in an instant, and run to the hills.

But, wait there's more....! You've tried them all, and "ALL have failed." Really. All of them? Every single one? What, did "they" conspire against you? Did IT not work again? Or is there perhaps just the tiniest chance that, perhaps YOU could be at fault? Nah, not possible, no way... couldn't be your fault. If it was your fault, that'd mean you were in control and would have to take responsibility for your own failures and we couldn't have that, could we?

Oh, it gets even better...! Before you "spend a dime" you must have "absolute 100% proof that the system WORKS." Gee, now who could be responsible for taking action, and making it work... couldn't be you, could it? (By the way, you use the word "it" 12 times in your email...)

Here's the truth: I could send you everything I've ever created, sit you down for 10 hours straight and give you a personal consultation, and you'd still get the same results with women. You take no responsibility for your actions or your outcomes, and women can smell that attitude a mile away--it's incredibly repulsive.

Also, because there's no commitment to be consistent with by me sending you something free, you'd glance at my system, put it down, and go find something else to whine about instead of taking action and getting results.

So, here's my "deal" for you: you may only invest in my system at twice the price, AND you must sign a document waiving the right to refund. In other words, YOU take ownership of it, and your results, something you have not done with anything to date.

Look, I'm still going to eat steak tonight whether or not you invest in my system. Your money will make no difference in my life whatsoever--but your using my system just might change your life forever. So, the real question is, can you change your self image enough to take responsibility for your own outcomes for the first time in your life? I doubt it...

Oh, and one other thing: ladies reading this, would you be attracted to a man with this type of attitude? Send me an email and let me know--best entry gets my downloadable Platinum system (sorry guys, women only, and no trying to fake it).

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Well, then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now before this website is removed.

Posted by john at 10:13 AM