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September 15, 2006

He asked her out... one day too late

Dear friends and subscribers,

A few years ago I went to the movies with a bright, intelligent sexy woman--she wanted to see a movie called "Love, Actually," and since I was in the mood to eat movie popcorn, I went. I'm glad I did (for a variety of reasons!), but the movie (a "chick flick") was pretty dang good.

There's one scene where a guy watches his best friend get married to the woman he loves. Why did she marry his best friend instead of him? For this reason: when she finds out his "secret" she looks at him with tears in her eyes, and says quite simply, "I never knew." What she doesn't say (but implies) is that if he'd only asked her, she'd have said yes. But instead, he put it off, and she married his best friend when it would have been him.

Makes for a nice movie, but the reason the scene is so powerful is because it's based in reality--a lot of guys just don't talk to the woman they want, and she walks out of their lives because "she never knew." Why don't most guys ask? Because they lack the proper knowledge, plain and simple. There's no class taught in any college on how to talk to or deal with women. And there sure as heck isn't any class on how to get them to approach you first, so that THEY ask you! Luckily, there is a new resource that teaches you how to do all that, and more. It's called "Secrets of Natural Attraction: How to Get Desirable Women to Chase YOU" and you can read all about it at http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

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On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:06 PM

It's NOT about dating...

Hey guys,

Want to know a sure-fire way to fail with women? Ask one on a "date"--you'll be done before you start. How do I know? Because I tested it over and over and over, and every time I went on a traditional "date," I never saw her again.

What will you do when the woman of your dreams suddenly leaves you to be with another man? Don't ever let this happen to you-- go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to make sure she's always thinking of you... and ONLY you!

Why does this happen? The answer is simple: every guy asks a woman on a date, and if she goes on one with you, you're just another guy (a JAG). Women don't want JAG's--they want a guy who's different, a guy who creates attraction. Dating is also a very structured, uncomfortable ritual--you dress nicely, bring her flowers, go eat at a swanky restaurant, all the while wondering if you're going to "get some." Then at the end of the night, you wonder if you're going to "get a kiss." After it's over you call your friends, and she calls hers to evaluate the whole ordeal.

No wonder dating sucks--it's no fun at all, and it's set up to fail from the beginning. So, I just don't date. I "allow" a woman to spend time with me to see how much we can enjoy each other's company over coffee. If she asks me "is this a date?" I say, "oh no, I don't date. This isn't dating, this is discovery. I get to discover if I like you or not!" They always love that response because it lets them know immediately I'm different from any other guy they ever met, and the experience they have with me will be vastly different than anything they've ever done before. And then they start to pursue me.

So, don't date, discover!

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:04 AM