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September 21, 2006

An amazing success story-- will yours be next?

Dear friends and subscribers,

Here's a success story to learn from--notice how this man took action to turn a relationship around, using information he got from me.


I never thought I would write to you but I thought I would let you know and anyone else who might doubt your methods. I will try to convey this as best as possible. I bought your system and I discovered what I had been doing, (right and wrong) just not sure of what it was until now. Let me explain. I am approaching 40, I take care of myself and own my own business, and I think I am average looking. I have had pretty good success with women and I have been married as well.

I have always been sort of a smartass/badboy with comments and actions towards women and it has worked for me most of the time. The women I have been dating were average or above average. Never really got the 10's. In the past I never really cared about most of them because I was hurt by a woman in my 20's. I understand now why she dumped me and I understand that because of you. That's not why I am writing you. I am writing to you to tell you about my new girlfriend I have. She is what I thought was one of those women, you know the unattainable, the 10, a Latina, exotic, one who has money, fancy cars, classy all that. I have been dating her for 9 mos.

I met her thru a dating service where you pick them and wait for her answer. So I got the phone number and called. Needless to say it took 2 weeks for her to call back. I was very cool when I left messages with nothing more than to call me, being very calm. it worked! I finally got a meeting (coffee) and she was a pain in the ass, I would compliment her and talk to her but at first she kind of ignored me for the first few minutes. I wore my work clothing, (I wanted her to like me for who I am not for what I have) but I thought it went well. I made all the first impression mistakes. I even ate onion on our second date and then tried to kiss her. No kiss for me that night. Eve! n though I made all the mistakes I was always told by her she liked the way I am and the way I treated her. I treated with kindness but still would tease her. Which I know now it was my attitude that was keeping her attracted to me. (I did not know that until I started reading your material.)

It worked well for a while because I did not care or love her. I wanted to because I wanted to settle down and I knew what I did not want. I knew I wanted to get along with a woman and have fun, talk and enjoy her for who she was. I discovered this in her and that's when things started to go south. I started to care. Then I started to make all the classic mistakes you talked about. That's why&nbs! p;I got your information, it turned Me around. I started to care and was making all the classic wuss mistakes. Telling her what ever she wanted hear and doing what ever she said. I never stood up to her, thinking I would lose her, I did whatever she wanted. But after reading your material I went back to my old ways. I pinched her butt, tease her tell if she is not good I will spank her, tell her I have a surprise for her if she was a good girl, things like that. Drove her crazy with the suspense. she cant take it. I will grab her ass in public and she complains but she loves it. I talk a little dirty to her on the phone, nothing gross, just enough to embarrass her. And the things SHE says in bed now i! s incredible!

Now you have to realize this is a classy lady. She has a high paying job and is in charge of a lot of people. She always dresses nice, high dollar clothing, high heals etc. Don't get me wrong, I treat her very well and with respect and love. But now I AM IN CONTROL! I tell her I love her and she loves me back now. The little naughty boy works. So if you send this out to any one, believe me Johns system will help any man for the short term or for the long term relationships, if you pay attention to what he says. Thank you John. I have never been happier! I FOUND WHAT I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR AND YOU HELPED ME KEEP HER!



JA: Thanks for the great success story, Scott--congratulations on getting your hands on good information and taking action with it. It's truly amazing how subtle changes in male behavior lead to extraordinary changes in female behavior. It's also remarkable how what "should work," does NOT and the results you get when you do what DOES work. Again, congratulations on your success.

Ready to be the next success story? To get your hands on the same information Scott did, information that produces astounding results with the women you desire, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't let someone else be the next success story instead of you--go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:34 PM

The awesome, scary power of attraction

Hey guys,

Attraction is one of the most powerful emotions women experience--but few guys understand this, or its ramifications. That's why some guys inadvertently cause great pain to women, either by action or inaction.

Read the following email, and my response--I think you'll understand how powerful attraction truly is afterwards.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

You did great up until you wrote: "she will give up friends, family, food, anything just to be with you. It's that powerful" Any healthy, vibrant and confidant woman would never have to GIVE UP what is an extension of her self or livelyhood. That is an intrical part of her life and the dynamic roles that each one plays can be substituted. No ONE man could be her mother, son, daughter, best friend, sorry, John. Was this an error or your truth? No one person should have to give up anything for the benefit of one person. Not good info.


JA: Thanks, for the email Lizette--let me clear this up a bit. What I was referring to was the power of attraction, not a specific course of action. Many men don't understand how powerful attraction truly is. All of us, however, have known a woman who spends all her time mooning over some jerk who treats her like crap, yet she can't stay away. She'll forego friends and family just to spend a few hours with the loser, she'll loan him money, bring him food and put up with all kinds of BS no matter how badly she treats him.

Eventually the attraction wears off and she says, "I don't know what I saw in that guy." That's because the feeling of attraction blinded her to reality, and made her resent her friends instead of appreciating them when they told her to get rid of him. That's how powerful attraction is.

Now, I am certainly NOT advocating that men treat women who attracted to them like this. Like it goes in Spider Man, great power comes with great responsibility.--men need to understand how powerful attraction is so they don't abuse it.

Perhaps no healthy, vibrant women should never have to give up an extension of herself, but the reality is she will do so willingly if the feeling of attraction is powerful enough--I've seen it happen over and over with women who should know better (lawyers, business owners, executive women). Men need to understand the power of attraction so they don't abuse it--and also so they will act on it once it's present.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the Big Leagues and attract desirable women your friends think are out of reach? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

PPS Don't forget about my latest contest where you can win BIG prizes--the details are below:

Here's how the contest is going to work. There are going to be several categories, with an entry prize for each category, and a "big winner prize" in each category. You may enter as many categories as you wish--but you must submit usable entries to get your prize.

Here's what a usable entry is: a description of a "great date" activity you've successfully experienced with a woman. Another guy should be able to read it, then go do the same thing and have just as much fun. There's no set limit on how long or short it should be, but the operative word is "usable." A guy should be able to sit down, read what you've written, and in five minutes be out the door to do what you just described. Be detailed--but don't include your life story.

Here are the categories:

Unusual dates

Afternoon dates

Evening dates

Low or no cost date

Expensive dates

Vacation/trip dates

Everyone who enters gets a copy of my X report. The big winner in each category gets my Secrets of Personal Authority System with Ultimate Attraction Roadmap teleseminar (which goes for $397.00).

There will also be one overall winner--the best of the best will receive my Mother of All Offers... ALL of my products in one big bundle (a $1997.00) value.

You should email your entries to: instantdate@womenapproachyou.com In the subject line of your email, please put the category your entry falls into. If you're sending in multiple stories (which I encourage), send them in separate emails. Please do not send attachments, just write your story in an email.

This contest ends in four days, so hurry. I will announce the winners shortly thereafter. Each entry becomes the property of Art of Steel, Inc. and Art of Steel, Inc. will own all the copyrights to each entry.

After it's all over, I'll add the best ones to The Instant Date Generator and then announce it to everyone when it's finished. Ladies, I especially encourage you to enter this contest, letting me know about the best dates you've ever been on. I suspect this product will be even more valuable to you than it is to the guys--you can give it to your husband or boyfriend and tell him to put it to use.

Posted by john at 09:28 AM