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September 22, 2006

Who else wants to attract that one, special woman?

Dear friends and subscribers,

There's a myth going around about men. Many people seem to think that what men want is to date as many women as possible. But they don't know what they're talking about. Why? Because in reviewing all the correspondence I get from guys, what most stands out is that men want to attract that "one, special woman." Maybe they'd like to have a few adventures along the way, but what they really want is to attract "one."

I think this is a fine thing- but most men have no clue about how to go about doing that, and instead settle for the first one that comes around instead of that "special one" they truly desire. To discover how you can attract that "one, special woman" go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't miss out on attracting that one special woman because you didn't know what to do when you finally met her. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now to make sure you can meet her, then attract her.

Posted by john at 04:16 PM

More dating BS from the web

Hey guys,

A long time doer on this list sent me the following email, regarding even more popular culture BS about dating, women and relationships. I wouldn't waste much time on the website he mentions, but it's worth briefly looking at, just to see why most men are so screwed up.

One of my favorite definitions of an expert is "a guy who knows 357 different sexual positions but can't get a date Saturday night." The guy who put up this website is, in this context, a true expert.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.


Just thought I'd share yet another way men are becoming deluded about how to properly attract women. http://www.laddertheory.com/ This site is telling men that women want rich powerful guys and that as far as attraction goes, its only 40% of the equation, 50% of the 40% being looks. Take a look and see what you think. Yet another thing I found interesting, was the way female ladder. I took your advice and separated myself for a while then made her feel as if it would never work between us and bam, she's been all over me the last couple of weeks. Even faster than I had expected (which leads me to believe she felt something before I started that I didn't pick up on since she was dating some chump at the time.) But aside from that, this site is being handed out all over the net and plenty of guys are using it as there relationship bible now. Yet one more way the male of today is becoming more like the female of yesterday.

"On with the Fun" (for those of us that know the truth anyways)


JA: Thanks for the email, Andrew--good to hear from you. I don't think you have to worry about very many men seeing that website--it's not getting too much traffic. I didn't have time to look too closely at it, but I did see one thing that stood out: the pie chart where it breaks down the elements of how women make decisions about men.

The guy who put this together obviously doesn't have much real world experience with women, dating and relationships because he reached pretty deep into his butt to pull out this chart. It says money and power are 50% of the decision making process, and attraction is 40%. Not true at all--if attraction is not present, she's not going to be with the guy. It's 100% of the equation and everything else is a nice add on.

I know guys who are good looking, and rich with impressive titles who repel women like it's nobodies business and it's not because they're arrogant jerks. The opposite is true actually--they're kind, sweet nice guys who are as boring as dirt... not an ounce of naughtiness anywhere in their bodies. They go on first dates, but not on second dates and are mystified as to why women don't want to see them again. It's because they create anti-attraction with their behavior, instead of engaging in behavior that works. Thanks for the email, Andrew--keep in touch.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the Big Leagues and attract desirable women your friends think are out of reach? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

PPS Don't forget about my latest contest where you can win BIG prizes--the details are below:

Here's how the contest is going to work. There are going to be several categories, with an entry prize for each category, and a "big winner prize" in each category. You may enter as many categories as you wish--but you must submit usable entries to get your prize.

Here's what a usable entry is: a description of a "great date" activity you've successfully experienced with a woman. Another guy should be able to read it, then go do the same thing and have just as much fun. There's no set limit on how long or short it should be, but the operative word is "usable." A guy should be able to sit down, read what you've written, and in five minutes be out the door to do what you just described. Be detailed--but don't include your life story.

Here are the categories:

Unusual dates

Afternoon dates

Evening dates

Low or no cost date

Expensive dates

Vacation/trip dates

Everyone who enters gets a copy of my X report. The big winner in each category gets my Secrets of Personal Authority System with Ultimate Attraction Roadmap teleseminar (which goes for $397.00).

There will also be one overall winner--the best of the best will receive my Mother of All Offers... ALL of my products in one big bundle (a $1997.00) value.

You should email your entries to: instantdate@womenapproachyou.com In the subject line of your email, please put the category your entry falls into. If you're sending in multiple stories (which I encourage), send them in separate emails. Please do not send attachments, just write your story in an email.

This contest ends in four days, so hurry. I will announce the winners shortly thereafter. Each entry becomes the property of Art of Steel, Inc. and Art of Steel, Inc. will own all the copyrights to each entry.

After it's all over, I'll add the best ones to The Instant Date Generator and then announce it to everyone when it's finished. Ladies, I especially encourage you to enter this contest, letting me know about the best dates you've ever been on. I suspect this product will be even more valuable to you than it is to the guys--you can give it to your husband or boyfriend and tell him to put it to use.

Posted by john at 10:08 AM