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September 23, 2006
It's much easier to attract women when...
Hey guys,
Last Thursday I had my monthly Doer's Only Insider's Club Press Conference call. On this member's only call, I talk for 30 minutes about a relevant topic (this month's was how to get back a woman who left you), then take questions from attendees on the call.
There were, as always some very excellent questions, and comments, and on this call I learned something very interesting from one of the attendees (don't worry, you Doers who missed the call will be receiving the CD so you won't miss out).
(If you're not currently a member, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/doersclub.htm to discover how to claim your free trial membership).
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One attendee asked about the online dating service, e-Harmony, wanting to know my opinion on it. I personally have little experience with that one, so another attendee shared a very interested experience he had.
What he said was, that the women he met on there were more predisposed to being attracted to him when they met in person because they all believed he was a "psychological match," and they were supposed to be attracted to him.
In case you've never seen or heard their commercials, e-Harmony makes a lot of hay about the fact that they have software developed by PhD's in psychology that match up men and women based on a magical questionnaire.
Now, I don't know if their software actually works as advertised or not, but it's a hell of a pitch. AND, it sets the expectation that because you're "psychologically matched" with someone you meet, you're going to be attracted to them.
In other words, the expectation creates the attraction. Moreover, the process creates that expectation so that when she meets you in person she's already pre-disposed to liking you.
This is what I call an automatic attraction system--a process that creates the expectation of attraction, making the in person meeting much smoother. For example, if I'm speaking in front of a group of people, not only are the women in the audience attracted to me, they EXPECT to be. Why? Because people who are good public speakers are attractive--just like rock stars and celebrities are attractive.
So, the thing to think about is this: how can you create and engineer processes that not only get women to come to you, but also create the expectation of attraction? E-Harmony is, obviously one way, and when you put your mind to it, you will come up with others.
I can tell you this, though--it is infinitely easier to increase the level of attraction with a woman who expects you to be attractive than it is to create it from scratch with a woman who has no expectations. The expectation sets the outcome--don't forget it.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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Here's how the contest is going to work. There are going to be several categories, with an entry prize for each category, and a "big winner prize" in each category. You may enter as many categories as you wish--but you must submit usable entries to get your prize.
Here's what a usable entry is: a description of a "great date" activity you've successfully experienced with a woman. Another guy should be able to read it, then go do the same thing and have just as much fun. There's no set limit on how long or short it should be, but the operative word is "usable." A guy should be able to sit down, read what you've written, and in five minutes be out the door to do what you just described. Be detailed--but don't include your life story.
Here are the categories:
Unusual dates
Afternoon dates
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Low or no cost date
Expensive dates
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You should email your entries to: instantdate@womenapproachyou.com In the subject line of your email, please put the category your entry falls into. If you're sending in multiple stories (which I encourage), send them in separate emails. Please do not send attachments, just write your story in an email.
This contest ends in four days, so hurry. I will announce the winners shortly thereafter. Each entry becomes the property of Art of Steel, Inc. and Art of Steel, Inc. will own all the copyrights to each entry.
After it's all over, I'll add the best ones to The Instant Date Generator and then announce it to everyone when it's finished. Ladies, I especially encourage you to enter this contest, letting me know about the best dates you've ever been on. I suspect this product will be even more valuable to you than it is to the guys--you can give it to your husband or boyfriend and tell him to put it to use.