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September 12, 2006
What not to do
Hey guys,
One of the best things I ever learned in business was this: "if you want to be successful, simply observe what others are doing, and do the opposite. Most people are unsuccessful--if you don't want to be like them, don't do the things they do."
I'll tell you something funny: this advice works even better when it comes to attracting women (or re-attracting them if you're in a relationship). Why? Because most men continue to unknowingly engage in behavior that simply kills attraction. If you stop this behavior, you'll instantly be eons more attractive to women, if you don't engage in any attractive behavior.
So, today I thought I'd tell you what not to do, so you can be sure to avoid it.
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First off, don't wonder if she "likes you." That's giving control of the interaction to her (which women hate), and letting her define the authority. Women can sense a man wondering--she should wonder if you like her.
Secondly, don't tell her you like her, or confess your feelings. Women love mystery, suspense, anticipation and trying to figure out if you like her--don't take that away from her and kill the attraction. Give her the gift of uncertainty.
Don't ask a woman for her "phone number." This fires off an anchor, bringing up all the memories of every wimp and waldo who's ever begged her for the digits, and links it to you. Give her the
opportunity to continue the conversation at another time, set the time, then exchange contact information, and expect her to show up.
Don't you dare set a "maybe date." What's that? It's one of those deals where she tells you to "call to confirm." That's a test and if you agree, you fail.
Don't go on a date. Again, it brings up memories of every bad experience she's ever had with a myriad of losers. Meet for coffee--it's fun, pressure free, and it's cheap.
Don't bring her gifts, give her compliments, or do anything to win her favor. Again, this takes all the uncertainty out of her life, and deprives her of the mystery and suspense of wondering if you like her. Women love mystery and suspense, even if us guys hate it. That's just how the world works.
Don't hold back what you say around her. She can sense this. If she's offended, that's her problem, and you need to find someone more suited. But, unless you're being a wuss, I've met very few women who are offended by strong style. They're offended by wusses trying to be strong, but not by men.
Don't brag, boast, or try to impress her. Women have heard it all, and really don't care about your big house, or how much money you make, or your boat, or any of that stuff. They just want to feel attraction. Confidence? Yes. Brashness? Yep. Cockiness? Oh yeah. But not hollow bragging or boasting--they can get that at any bar full of beer bellies working on the third round.
If you want a rule of thumb about what to avoid doing, I'll give you one: avoid any behaviors that kill mystery, suspense, anticipation, or that allow her to define authority in the interaction. Do that, and you'll be just fine.
Oh, and if you want to know what TO DO (and be incredibly attractive to women), just go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now. It's unbelievable how good your life can be, when you know what to do AND what not to do.
On with the fun--
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
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