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October 06, 2006
Is excitement overwhelming you?
Hey guys,
When I started in business many years ago, I was very excited by the prospect of generating floods of cash. In fact, I often got so excited it inhibited my work. This same thing happens to guys who want to attract women. Luckily, there is a solution to this problem, something that turns paralyzing excitement into the ordinary.
Read on to discover the email that sparked this question, and the solution that follows.
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Hi John ,
My name is Jim and I'm 21 , and I'm a fan of you , you literally changed my life since I heard about you.... Anywayz I'm here today to ask you about what would u do in a certain situation. When sometimes you accomplish something ABNORMAL , getting billions , having abundance of women , being literally on the top of the world , YOU JUST GET EXCITED and that excitement sometimes can stop you from going any further telling yourself(I COULDNT BELIEVE THAT I DONE THIS) so is there any helpful idea or belief that could make me think that WHATEVER I DO! Wherever I go , I would NOT be excited because that excitement hurts and really sometimes causes what I call (BUTTERFLY) feeling whether its women etc.... once I had a friend that got about 7 millions in his account one night and he just got a heartattack from EXCITEMENT.
Please help me.
Thanx,
-Jim
JA: Thanks for the email, Jim--you bring up some really good points. Sometimes excitement about an expected outcome can be just as paralyzing as fear. I used to have a friend who would concoct business idea after business idea, get incredibly excited at the prospect of quick riches, then quit and move onto something else as soon as the excitement faded. He was an excitement junkie.
Excitement and fear both stem from anticipation of unknown or never before experienced results. If the result to you is common and expected, you won't be particularly excited or fearful. The way to get to this point is to take action and build your self image to the point where success in any endeavor is normal. When it's normal, you're not going to get over-excited.
For example, if the prospect of attracting a stunning woman gets you over excited, your excitement will fade into the background when you make it your business to be around stunning women on a regular basis--you'll find they're pretty much like any other woman, just wanting to meet a guy who makes them feel attraction.
It's the same thing with making money. When you focus on the process, and get into the hard work of doing it, the excitement fades. When you do it again and again successfully, it becomes your normal reality to you, and the butterflies cease to flutther.
So, the real key to overcoming paralyzing excitement is to simply take action over and over in the area that excites you until it becomes your normal reality. That's how the mind works--fear and excitement come from the unknown, not the normal.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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