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November 03, 2006

What will your friends think when...?

Dear friends and subscribers,

What will your friends think when they see attractive woman after attractive woman approaching you? Or, better yet, what will they think when they see your new, hot girlfriend, a woman they secretly dream about but know they could never get in real life?

If you're tired of being the guy who never gets the girl, and want to be the guy women always flock to, then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun....


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS To be the envy of friends, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now. There's nothing like having them ask YOU for advice on how to attract women.

Posted by john at 04:19 PM

Why discretion really is the better part of valor

Hey guys

What I want to talk about today is why a lot of guys get in trouble when they discover that, yes attraction CAN be created on demand, and that yes, you literally can attract more desirable women than you now what to do with.

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Just because a thing can be done doesn't mean that it should be. Just because you can spend time with a new woman every week (or every day), doesn't mean you should. Why? Because, like I discover every year when football ends (a sad time of the year, luckily not for several more months!), there's a whole wide world of other things out there.

Attracting desirable women is NOT the end all, be all, indeed, it is only the means to an end, a skill that allows you choice in one important area of your life: relationships. Too many men go a little crazy when they discover they can create attraction on demand and it consumes their lives. Every single moment is spent trying to "pick up" another woman to the detriment of other aspects of life.

You've got to manage the time you spend on attraction. To do so, you have to know your goals, not just with women, but in every aspect of your life. Once you do so, you can allot the correct amount of time to attracting women (or one special woman), so that it doesn't take away from everything else you want to do.

It's important to me to be in good physical health, to be financially and actually free, and to hang around men and women I enjoy spending time with. If I spend too much time on attracting desirable women, then that would take away from those goals. If I spend just the right amount of time, then that enhances those goals.

I've always been a big believer that discretion is indeed the better part of valor, and the use of discretion is paramount in attracting women and achieving goals in other areas of your life. Sometimes it makes a lot of sense to stay in and work on a project that will bring you financial and real freedom instead of going out and attracting desirable women that may bring you only fun in the moment.

How you live your life, and what you accomplish is ultimately up to you, but I'd advise you to spend a little time and see how attracting women fits into it--because it certainly should. Spending no time on attraction is a very bad thing, but spending too much time on it is also bad--you need to determine for yourself the right amount of time to spend on it, so you can accomplish EVERYTHING you want to in your life.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Would you like to attract that "one special woman?" Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:15 AM