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November 15, 2006

Who dares, wins

There's an old saying that goes, "act boldly and unseen forces will come to your aid." Another version of it is, "fortune favors the bold." I have found this to be very true in my life, whether it is in relation to women, business, even fitness. He who "dares," truly wins.

But to win, you must have the right information. They difference between acting boldly and acting stupidly is simply having the right information. No matter how boldly you act, you will not get the results you want if you're acting on bad (or no) information.

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On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:56 PM

The importance of reliable information

Hey guys,

A few years ago a friend of mine approached me with a business venture. He was an excitable guy, and very excited about this project. It was during the internet boom, and it had to do with selling businesses wireless, high speed internet.

When it comes to business, there's only one thing I'm interested in--the numbers. Not fake numbers, not "wishful number," but real, cold, hard numbers. Why? Because it allows me to make a fast decision about whether or not I should spend any time, energy and effort on the project or move onto bigger and better things.

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So, I started asking my friend a few questions, trying to get to the "real numbers." As usually happens in cases like these, he was not happy that I didn't share his excitement. "Don't you see," he said, "this is going to be HUGE!" Show me the real numbers, I said, and I'll believe it when it happens.

He went off to "prove me wrong," an emotional reaction to a situation whose outcome is dictated by cold, hard, logical numbers. A few weeks later he showed up with some numbers--it cost them over $15,000.00 to install these things, and they were charging business owners $30 a month.

Now, you don't have to hit me with a skunk for me to know when something stinks. There was no way this project could work--he thought they'd "make it up in volume" or someone would buy them out. I told him that this things days were severely numbered, and he'd better get out now. So he went off to prove me wrong again, and a few months later the whole thing collapsed as I said it would. It didn't take a genius to see it coming, only someone who could make decisions based on reality.

Unfortunately, most people do NOT make decisions based on reality. They make it on what they wish reality was, and they let their enthusiasm get in the way of clear thinking. This happens so often with men and women, it's unbelievable.

Attraction is a powerful thing, and a powerful blinder. When people start to feel it, they shut all other critical thinking factors off, and make decisions based on unreliable information. Then they're left wide eyed and shocked when it all blows up in their face.

For example, this same friend of mine had the exact pattern of behavior (a "meta-program") with women as he did with business. He'd meet one, get all excited about her, only to be mystified when it blew up yet again.

He was especially bad when it came to strippers. His favorite rationalization was, "Oh, she's different. She's just paying her way through school, and only dances at classy places. She really is a great person." The same thing always happened--she'd flake out, go on a bender, get all coked up, and make his life miserable.

Why did this happen? Because he made decisions based on what he wanted reality to be, rather than what it was.

If there was one thing I could teach guys about attraction it would be this: don't make any decisions about how much time you're going to spend with her until you have reliable information about her. Nothing wrong with dating, having fun, and finding out who she is, but anything further than that should be postponed until you have reliable information about how she behaves in all kinds of different situations.

Attraction is a wonderful feeling, but it can disrupt your decision making and cause you massive headaches in the future. These headaches can be prevented by discovering reliable information about her, and making decisions based on reality, NOT wishful thinking.

Do this, and you'll be ahead of 99% of the population.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:11 AM