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November 18, 2006

What matters with women

Dear friends and subscribers,

I've said it many times. When it comes to success with women, looks don't matter, age doesn't matter, income doesn't matter, and social status doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is if you can make her feel a powerful sense of attraction. That's it. It really is that simple. If you make her feel a powerful sense of attraction she will give up friends, family, food, anything just to be with you. It's that powerful.

See, most men fail with women because they believe this powerful sense of attraction "just happens." Or that if you have looks, money, or social status these things will create attraction. But this is not true. Any man can CREATE attraction for women... if you know how.

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On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and win a life of power and success with women? If so, then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 04:07 PM

Are you on the inside looking out?

Hey guys,

Did you know most men doom themselves to failure before they even talk to woman? Furthermore, it's not because of looks, it's not because of age, it's not because of income, and it's not even because of the woman.

Here's the reason: when it comes to attracting women, most guys are "inside" their own head. In fact most people spend their entire lives inside of their own heads, and wonder why they're not successful.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm and discover unusual secrets to getting women to approach you first.

Here's what I mean by "inside your head." When a guy sees an attractive woman, he immediately starts the mental process of wondering, "does she like me?" Then he follows up in short order with, "I wonder if she'll reject me, or laugh at me, or if I'm dressed right, or if her friends will like me..." and on and on and on.

By the time he gets "the nerve" to talk with her, he's instilled so much doubt in himself that all his self created prophecies come true. Why? Because doubt is an attraction killer. It's an authority killer. Women can smell doubt like a hungry dog smells bacon.

How do you get rid of doubt? By getting outside your own head, and shutting off the doubt creating mental processes. When you see an attractive woman, all you focus on is her. When you talk to her (basing your initial interaction on your initial observation) you're focused on how she responds to you.

Then you simply focus on the process of achieving the next step of your goal with her. In the case of a woman you just met, who passes all YOUR screening, the next step would be to allow her to spend some more time with you, over coffee or at your place. So, staying outside your own head, focused on her and her reactions, you move the interaction in that direction. You're outside your head at all times.

What staying outside your head does is keep doubt from ever forming. Since you're focused on her, your mind is preoccupied and literally can't start the doubt process. She picks up on the absence of doubt (which is unusual because most guys she talks to have doubt), and converts it into authority and attraction.

So, if you want to be instantly more successful with women, get "outside" your own head, and stop spending so much time "inside."

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to master every part of your dating and relationship life? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

PPS What's the Ultimate Attraction Secret? To find out, go to www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm

Posted by john at 11:03 AM