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November 20, 2006

The amazing "women approach you" secrets of a desperate nerd from Texas!

Dear friends and subscribers,

I few years ago I had a "crazy idea" about how to meet women. I bounced it off one of my friends, and he told me it was the dumbest thing he'd ever heard of, that it would never work. Then he laughed in my face, and called me a "desperate nerd."

Well you know what? I did try my idea, and women did respond to me. So I tried it again on a larger scale, and I almost had to disconnect my phone, I had so many phone calls. So, what was this "crazy idea," that literally caused my phone to ring off the hook from women desperate to meet me? To find out, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS I'm convinced this "crazy idea," can work for any man, no matter your looks, age or income. To put it to work for you, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 04:58 PM

The power of language

Hey guys,

Have you ever done any of the following:

1. Asked a woman on a "date" or if she would "go out with you"

2. Asked a woman for "her phone number"

3. Told a woman you "liked her"

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If so, you probably got the same eventual result--no date, no call back, and no "liking" back on her part. Why is this, especially when we, as men, are all taught that this is what we're supposed to ask women?

It comes to language, and your choice of words. Keep in mind that words in and of themselves are also anchors--links to emotions and past memories, and when she hears a certain set of words or a phrase, it brings back memories and emotions (good and bad) which are transferred to you.

Consider, for example, the "can I have your phone number" question. Even though she may be attracted to you, when she hears you ask that question, it brings up memories of every other dork who's asked that, and suddenly she lumps you in with them. I've talked with women about this very question, and they all say the same thing: "whenever I hear that question, it's just like a big door is suddenly slammed down between me and the guy, and I just lose interest."

So, what's the solution? A subtle change in language, using words that are out of the ordinary and do not bring up any negative emotions. Instead of asking for a phone number, you "exchange contact information," instead of "going on a date" you allow her to "hang out with you," instead of telling her you "like her," you tell her she "occasionally entertains you."

When you use language like this, several things happen. First off, since it's not language she commonly hears, there are no bad emotions associated with it. Secondly because you're telling her instead of asking her, you're coming from a place of authority, which automatically creates attraction. And, most importantly, since it's unusual, she has no bad category to lump you into--you create your own, unique category with her, which leads to attraction.

So, if you're having problems with women responding the way you want them to, sit down and analyze the language you're using--many, many times that is the root of the problem, and a subtle shift will produce amazing results.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 11:15 AM