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December 03, 2006

Confused and frustrated by women?

Ever heard the saying, "women: you can't live with them, can't live without them?" When you think about it, that describes the experience of most men--they want to experience the fun and joy that comes with having a great woman in their lives, but often experience confusion and frustration at the same time.

Well, what if you could experience all the good without any of the bad? Can you really do that? The answer is yes IF you know the secrets to creating attraction with the women you truly desire.

To discover these secrets, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:26 PM

Q and A with The King

It's been awhile since I've done some Q and A, so I'm going to take a bit of time today to answer your questions. I wish I could get to everyone's, but I get so many emails it is impossible to do.

When I do Q and A I usually choose questions that are the most relevant to everyone on the list, so your chances of getting your questions answered go up when your questions apply to most of the guys on my list.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.


I''ve been getting your newsletter for quite a few weeks now. I thank you for your stories and the adventures of men and women. I must tell you one thing John. I am 73 years old and I have never had a problem with women being attracted to me or me to them. I am not looking for many women. I am satisfied with my life as it is. I look for quality in a woman and I can say that most of the women I like are married. But I don't flirt with them because i would not want that to happen to me if my woman was out on the prowl for a night of un. I'm an attractive guy with a great personality. I'm not conceited because I know what type of woman I like and it isn't like I can order anyone I want at any specific time. They all walk into my life at one time or another .Right now, I have four women I can date and do date but not all at one time. lol. One is 31. One is 42. The third is 49 and very sexy . The fourth is 71 and very loving .

I have women friends all over the world where I have either lived or traveled. They want us guys the same as we want them. I am very sociable. I can discuss almost any topic.I dance with all of them...fat ones, skinny ones, voluptious ones, etc. Today, there are MORE women than men. More new babies are born today as females. I have four daughters, four grown grandddaughters and three great grand daughters. I feel outnumbered but I love them. They are all different and sweet. That's the Key. Sweet !!!!!! I thank you for your advice and I like quality. The sweeter they are, the better!!!! I have learned that the more attention a woman gets, the more they like us. I am their pal, their confidant, their protector. That is what makes me happy. They trust me and that keeps all wierdos away. You serve a good incentive for men who must learn how to KEEP good women.


JA: Thanks for the great email, George--you have a great attitude, and that's what women find most attractive. Also, you can from an era where men acted like men, and that's why you're able to attract women of all ages, and have so many female friends. Too many men believe that looks, age or income prevents them from attracting women, but the right attitude (and skill set) cuts through all that. If more 30 year old guys had your outlook on women, women would be a heck of a lot happier. Thanks for setting a great example.


I went to dinner with my parents last night at a nice, upscale Asian restaurant with the kind of nice, upscale patrons you would expect. We were sitting at the bar and we all started watching the last half of Star Wars, Ep III. Even the bartender would turn around and watch when she wasn't busy making an order.

Many of the girls at the bar (including my mom) started adding their own commentary.

From a movie star perspective, they could ogle Ewan McGregor, Sam Jackson, Jimmy Smits, and Hayden Christensen (I had to look that one up). From a story perspective, they had wealth, political power, athleticism, good looks, and access beyond any velvet rope in the galaxy (presumably, the Jedi mind trick works on doormen at even the nicest nightclubs).

During the climactic light saber duel between Obi-Wan and Anakin, the story would return to Yoda battling the Chancellor. Then that I noticed something interesting - the ladies around me were all gaga for Yoda.

The bartender was this beautiful woman with a great, fun personality. She's pretty much near the top of the food chain and yet she was especially passionate about Yoda. She couldn't say enough about him and was soon out of superlatives.

The ladies could have picked any of the eye-candy up on the screen. Instead, the one they chose was a short, bald, grammatically-challenged, chubby old guy.

So, the next time I see a beautiful woman sitting alone at a bar in a nice, upscale restaurant, I'm going to ask myself one simple question before I do anything: "What would Yoda do?"

Joking aside, I'm learning a lot from your newsletters. I think you're definitely on to something fundamental and I think it goes beyond just guys meeting girls and the relationships that sometimes follow. There's a cultural side to it all as well. I think there's a real value in what you've developed and I'll be signing up soon.

Have a good weekend,

Bill M.

JA: Thanks for the email Bill. One thing I want to point out that's very important in attracting women is paying close attention to what's happening in your environment. Most guys do not do this--they're too busy paying attention to the conversation in their own heads. When you pay close attention like you did, you'll notice little details that will make a huge difference later on. In your situation, for instance, it's no great stretch to get into a conversation with the women present about the movie, then start transitioning to naughty/fun behavior.

Thanks, for the questions/comments, guys--we'll do it again soon.

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On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:21 AM