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December 10, 2006

The one big secret to "attraction on demand"

What if I were to tell you there was one BIG SECRET to creating attraction with any woman you want? Further, what if I were to tell you that any can put this secret to use immediately, regardless of your looks, age or income to attract the women--or woman--you truly desire? How interested would you be?

Here's the truth: there IS one big secret to attraction, and it's called "personal authority." Most men are confused by this, having been deliberately been trained to be wusses and nice guys by society, been trained to think that authority is a bad thing.

It's not... IF you use it correctly. Most men don't because they don't know how. But women crave a man with personal authority, they dream about such a man. And you can be that man, if you understand a few simple secrets, things society at large does not want you to know. But I do--and I have condensed these secrets into an easy to use system you can put to work for you immediately. For details, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm right now, before I decide to remove this website for good.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Personal authority in a man is like a narcotic to women... they can't resist. That's the good news. The bad news is, if you don't give it to them, they'll leave and find a man who will. Don't be the man they're leaving, be the man they run to. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:48 PM

The ultimate attraction killer- are you guilty too?

I received a very valuable email from one of the women on my list. If you've ever wondered what women really think of nice guys and wimps, read this email closely--it might just change your perception of how women think about men.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.


I just want to give you one more thought about your analogy of the 350 lb. woman. There are REASONS that women look that way, and when you see a woman like that, she is sending out all kinds of vibes about why you DON'T want to be around her. Aside from the fact that she's not physically attractive, if she's that much of a physical mess, she is also an emotional mess--feels bad about herself, is depressed, etc. Who wants that?

In the same way, wussy, needy men send out cues to women that turn us right off. What you describe as being a nice guy, I describe as being desperate. I am a little afraid of a guy who is falling all over me. Why is he trying so hard? I don't want to be the center of any man's life. I just want to have fun and enjoy his company. That doesn't mean I don't want a long term relationship. I just want a long term relationship with a fun guy whose company I can enjoy. I want to take care of myself, and have a guy in my life who respects that, and can take care of himself too. That doesn't mean I don't want him to be funny, or naughty. It doesn't mean I don't want us to be nice to each other. I just don't want to feel like we are drowning in a sea of loneliness, and clinging to each other for dear life. That is NOT fun.

I doubt that it's really a normal part of any man's personality to crawl on his belly and let a woman run his life for him. I think that's why it's such a turnoff. Women know instinctively that a man like that is not a HEALTHY male. Survival of the species has programmed both sexes to look for HEALTHY specimens. How you look, and how you act are indicators of that. Guys are looking for bright-eyed, small waisted, curvy females. Women are looking for confident, amusing, take charge guys. Not cave men, but certainly not Wally Cox, either. And I don't mean the way he looked. He was actually kinda cute, in his own way. At least he was sure enough about who he was not to wear a toupee. Act like you like yourself, and you're used to having fun and making decisions. THAT is more attractive than a flat tummy and bulging biceps.

And NEVER say, 'I don't know--what would YOU like to do?" ALWAYS suggest something, even if you say, "Would you like to go to the movies?" It's better than making her suggest something in the beginning.


JA: Thanks for the great email Anina-- I really don't think I could have said it better myself. Doubt and desperation are the twin killers of attraction, and you're right on when you say nice guys are really desperate guys.

Unfortunately today's men are taught to be nice guys, whiners, and wusses--"unhealthy men." The cure is to start acting like men again, start doing the things that actually create attraction with women (see http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover how to do just that).

Thanks again, Anina- it's always valuable to hear a woman's perspective on things.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to attract that one special woman? Or do you just want to meet lots of fun women for adventure and good times? To discover how to do both, http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 09:43 AM