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December 11, 2006

Don't chase women, attract them-- here's how

There's nothing more frustrating than wondering if a woman "likes you," then pursuing her, trying to get her to notice you, even date you. How does it usually end? By her going off with a guy who she was "attracted to," a guy who never showed any interest in her at all.

Why would she do this? Because the guy who supposedly "showed no interest" actually knew how to create attraction, and she came to him, instead of him chasing her. Trust me, that's a much better way to go, for both men and women--if you'd like to discover how to "stop chasing" and start attracting, then simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm and discover how to get women to approach YOU first, no matter your looks, age, or income.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the big leagues and live a lifetime of success and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 04:02 PM

Stranger than fiction... but still fiction

Last night I went to the movies to see the latest Will Farrell movie, "Stranger Than Fiction." It's the kind of movie critics gush over and squeal with delight about. In spite of that however, it wasn't a bad movie. Not the best movie, I've ever seen but not a bad one.

The movie however, is worth seeing, because it is a prime example of the insidious social programming infecting the minds of men today.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Will Farrell plays an IRS agent, tasked with auditing a baker who's not paying her taxes as a form of social protest (against "national defense," among other things, for all you soldiers, sailors, marines, and airmen who are out there defending the rights of movie makers to say such moronic things). She's good looking, feisty, and tattooed--a "strong woman."

This is actually the kind of woman I'd be attracted to (setting aside the protest over "national defense.") But I sure as hell wouldn't do anything Will's wussy character does in this movie (but I might do something like his "Frank the Tank" character in Old School).

Anyways, there's a scene in the movie where, he decides she's the woman for her, brings her flowers, and meekly confesses his feelings for her. What happens in the movies? She invites him up to her place and "jumps his bones."

That, my friends, is pure fiction. It don't happen that way in the real world. If you "confess your feelings" to a woman you recently met after trying to bribe her with flowers followed by an awkward moment and her saying, "that's nice." Then you'll never hear from her again.

It's worth watching this scene so you know what not to do. I was literally cringing when the scene started because I knew exactly how it would play out... in the world of pure fiction.

The problem with stuff like this is, men see it over and over and thing that's how they create attraction with women. After getting hit with that skunk several times personally (and thousands of my subscribers have been hit with that same skunk--he's a big one), I finally figured out that what works in today's movies has nothing to do with reality. In fact, today's movies are only worth watching so you know what not to do.

If you want to know what to do, you have to go back to the 690's and before- check out the original Pink Panther with David Niven... I guarantee you will see no man confess his feelings in that movie.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to attract that one special woman? Or do you just want to meet lots of fun women for adventure and good times? To discover how to do both, http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 09:52 AM