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December 16, 2006

How to finally attract that one, special woman

There is a myth about men, spread by the popular media. They think that all men want to do is sleep around with lots of women, that they're not interested in real relationships.

But that's not true at all. In fact, based on the feedback from all the guys on my list, what most men really want is to attract that one special woman. If they have a few fun adventures on the way, that's great--but in the end they want a real relationship with the woman on their dreams, not one they just settled for.

To discover how to finally attract that one special woman, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:40 PM

Attract... by not attracting!

Have you ever met a guy who is just naturally attractive to women? Not a jerk, not a womanizer, just a guy who women seem to flock to, not as a friend but as a man they're attracted to.

When you see a guy like this, do you ever think to yourself, "how does this guy attract so many women without even trying?"

And that, is exactly the point.

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Women can sense when you're "trying" to attract them- -they can feel the doubt, and in some cases desperation. When you're not trying, when you're just living in the moment, having a good time, there is no doubt or desperation... and that leads to attraction.

The key is make engaging in attractive behavior a habit, much like driving a car. When you see an attractive woman, you automatically smile and say something naughty to her. You don't do it with an outcome in mind, you do it because you're the kind of guy who does stuff like that.

Does that invalidate using tools and "pick up" techniques? Yes and no. When you're starting out and have no clue about creating attraction with women, such tools can be invaluable to build your internal view of yourself as an attractive guy. They can give you positive reinforcement and feedback.

But as your self image builds, you find you really don't need such tools, that "being yourself" is attractive. So you reach a point where you cast off the tools and just expect to attract women. You're no longer acting, you're authentic.

And authenticity is what allows you to attract... without attracting!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"


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Posted by john at 10:30 AM