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December 26, 2006

Short, but sweet

I just received the following email regarding my Ultimate System:

Hi John, I bought you basic ultimate attraction package. Although it was my fault for not noticing this before placing my order, I ended up being a little disappointed that there wasn't any specific information regarding on-line profiles (don't worry, I got over it since it was my mistake, lol).

I am extremely happy with what I have gotten out of it and have already seen results, (already intimate with 2 women by the 3rd meeting). My budget didn't allow for more than I spent at the time, but I was wondering if you offered the information on online profiles separately. I want to have better responses to my online ads and meet even more women. I know you're busy so thanks for your time.

Gus

JA: Hah, two women by the third meeting, huh? And you haven't had my system that long...! Congratulations on your success--if you get a chance, send in the detail of how you did it--lots of guys would love to hear your success stories, and who know the ol' King might learn a thing or two.

And yes, you may upgrade to the Deluxe System so you get all the info on online dating... I made that a separate part of the product because I really get into detail on how to get hordes of desirable women to flock to you while you do no work at all. I love the internet!

To be like Gus, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm
before it's too late!

On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and win a life of power and success with women? If so, then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 04:18 PM

Re: you can't polish a turd

I'm going to take a bit of a holiday break for one or two days, then I'll be back at it "full force." So, what I'm going to do is one or two "best of" emails, episodes which got great reviews at the time, but that many of you have never seen. Keep in mind all past episodes are archived at www.JohnAlanis.com and you can always read the daily emails there.

Anyways, today's "best of" is: You can't polish a turd...

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One of my favorite sayings has always been, "you can't polish a turd." I first heard it on Beavis and Butthead, but if you think about it, there is a lot of wisdom in that saying. And a lot of men and women get in trouble because they spend their time trying polish someone who really is a turd, instead of finding someone is a diamond.

With men, it usually has to do with beauty. A guy meets a really hot woman and lusts after her beauty, failing to recognize she has some pretty bad personality traits. This happens a lot with guys who date strippers... they are so entranced by her looks they reframe the flakiness, boozing, and drugs by saying silly things like, "she's just going through some issues right now--she only took this job to work her way through medical school."

If that ain't a severe case of "turd polishing," I don't know what is. She's not "working her way through med school," she's a fruitcake who happens to look good--- for now. She's not going to change for you. On the slim chance she does, it will come from within, usually due to a severe "life-shock" her own behavior created. But she has a much better chance of ending up face down in the gutter than she does of ever going to med school.

It happens with women as well. A great woman meets a charismatic guy, he flips her attraction triggers HARD, and she reframes every personality deficiency he has, even if he beats her up. If he's late for a planned evening she says, "Well, he's a busy guy, I'm sure he has a good reason." If he hits her she says, "I know him, and he didn't mean to do it" (even if he didn't "mean to do it" 27 times in a row). If he mentally and emotionally abuses her, calls her names, and makes her life hell, she'll say, "I know he's mean sometimes, but that's not who he really is. He's really just a sweet little boy."

This is big time "turd polishing." No, he does not have a "good reason" for violating his word, yes he did mean to hit her, and no he's not a sweet little boy. He's a turd, and no matter how hard you polish, and polish, and polish, he won't shine. Turds don't shine, diamonds and gold do. I've probably been though just about every situation designed to engineer change in people. I've served in the US Navy's Submarine force, done the Forum/Est seminar, studied Psycho-Cybernetics, taught people self-help secrets, and the one big conclusion I've taken from all these very good things is this: change only comes from within. The only way you're going to help anyone change or get their life together is if they've already made the decision. That's it. That's reality. If they've already made the decision to get their act together and are taking action, they are not a turd. They may be a very, very, very rough diamond, but you can polish a rough diamond. Takes a lot of abrasive tools, but it can be done. Put the same tools to use on a turd, and what happens? It splatters all over your face, and you wind up smelling and looking like a turd too.

So take it from the King... you can't polish a turd, no matter how hard you try. All you can do is flush the toilet, hope it doesn't clog, and start looking for diamonds.

Just say "no" to turd-polishing...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS Are you finally ready to master every part of your dating and relationship life? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:08 AM