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December 31, 2006

Lost, lost in a world of fantasy...

If you're from my generation, you might remember those words from the band Triumph--they were a great band, and "Fantasy" was a great song (yes, Aldo Nova put out a song by that name as well). Unfortunately, that's also an apt description of today's pop culture and media influence when it comes to attracting women... pure fantasy.

If you believe what society teaches, then you believe the way to attract women is by confessing your feelings, acting kind and sensitive, and begging for their favors. Good luck with that.

To get the results you truly desire with women, you have do things that create attraction, not repel it. Luckily, there is an easy way for you to use these, and attract as many women as you want, as fast as you want., go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:30 PM

Phone number acquired?

A while back I ran across a website published by a men's magazine that rate "pick up women" systems. It was rather dated, but it did have some interesting information, dating all the way back to Eric Weber's "How to Pick Up Chicks," published in the 1970's.

What was most interesting to me, however was how they "rated" these systems.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

What they did was spend a few days reading and studying each system, then went out to the field to spring their new found knowledge on unsuspecting women. Then they would assign each system a rating based on how successful they were.

Not a bad idea for a story, but there was one, fatal flaw in their ratings method. They defined "success" by whether or not they acquired a phone number.

That's a terrible way to define success with women. In reality, these guys were not rating attraction systems, they were rating phone number getting systems. Hey, that's great if your goal is to collect a huge pile of paper with phone numbers in women's handwriting, but if you actually want to have relationships with women it's a terrible measure.

Getting phone numbers is easy. You just ask. Some women will give a phone number, some won't. Some will give you disconnected numbers, some will give numbers they don't answer, and some will actually give you their real number--but never answer or call you back.

The point I want to make is this: acquiring contact information from a woman is a very small part of the attraction process, and in fact, the act of asking for one can kill attraction dead. Why? Because losers and posers ask for phone numbers, and when you do that, you're put into that category, even if she's initially attracted to you.

The secret is to set up a meeting with her first, then exchange, "contact information," almost as an afterthought. Then you meet her and carry on the attraction process until you get your intended result, whatever that is for you.

The only way to measure success with desirable women is by whether or not you get your intended results, and I'm pretty sure your intended result is more than a stack of phone numbers.

In my humble opinion, toilet paper is more useful than those. Give me a real, live, fun woman--that's the only way to measure success.
On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:26 AM