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December 15, 2006
The truth about attracting women in bars and clubs
Just about every bad joke starts out, "a guy goes into a bar..." No matter the joke, it always ends with something bad or stupid happening to the guy, much as it does in real life.
Whenever I do a radio interview (which is rare these days--they're a real pain in the ass), the first thing the DJ (who usually hasn't had a date in years, but still feels compelled to pretend like he knows something about attraction) asks me is, "so when I go into a bar, what line should I use?"
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When it comes to attracting women, I am not a big fan of bars and clubs. I don't have a problem with going out occasionally and having a good time, but bars and clubs are probably the worst place to attract women.
Instead of me telling you why, I'm going to share an experience a subscriber of mine had with them. Here it is:
Hi john,
I was wondering if you could help me out with the situation I'm in? goes like this..
Met this girl a few weeks back in a bar, she approached me, we exchanged numbers, we met up that following weekend, we both had a great time drinking etc, met for the second time on a monday nite, went for a coffee then kissed etc, and went out together another night after that but this weekend just been we went out, I left her for 15 mins in a club, came back and she was kissing another guy. Approached her and she wanted to stay with him. I'm really stuck, I want to keep seeing her so what should I do? Only seen her once since the weekend and that was to pick up my boxers from her house, we didn't talk much, any advice on what to do from here??
regards
Marc
JA: Thanks for the email, Marc--your story pretty much describes what happens when you meet women in bars and clubs. One of my favorite sayings is this: "the people you meet in bars are people who go to bars." The woman you met is a woman who consistently goes to bars and clubs, looking for a good time in the moment. You tried to make her something she's not--you're guilty of "turd polishing."
The solution is to quit meeting women in bars and clubs, and start meeting them in places where the quality is going to be much higher. Sit down and determine what you want in a woman, and what you don't want, then make a list of the places where such women hang out and spend your time there.
Again, I'm not against going out and having a good time--and on rare occasion you might just meet a great woman in a bar who's simply out for an occasional good time herself... but that's the exception rather than the rule. Most women you meet in bars are women who go to bars, and they behave just like Marc described above.
If you want quality, you have to go where the quality is... and it ain't in a bar or club.
To discover how to attract quality women wherever you go, have a look at http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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