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January 06, 2007

Attention all ladies on the King's list!

As you may or may not know, I'm having an event in Austin, Texas where I'm going to teach the attendees how to dramatically shortcut their mastery of attraction, so they can learn in days what it takes most guys months, even years to learn. This event will take place January 26-27, 2007 (Friday and Saturday).

I am also going to be having an optional "money-making" first day that will take place on Thursday, January 25, 2007. During this day I will be revealing how anyone can make money quickly and easily AND have the time to enjoy it, like I do.

Unlike most "attraction events" where it's just a bunch of guys, I'm actually going to have real, live women at the event, so I can SHOW guys what attraction is all about. I am pleased to say several have already agreed to come, but... I want more!

I want this to be an event where guys can actually interact with women in a fun learning environment, so they can truly "get" what I teach.

So, here's the deal: if you're a bright, fun, sexy woman who'd love to spend a few hours just talking with guys, PLUS discover how to make piles of money, then you're invited to my event. Now, the regular admission fee is very steep, but, if you're willing to help out at the event, I'll waive that for you, and you can attend both the attraction event AND the money-making day (which you do NOT want to miss) for free. You're responsible for travel and hotel costs, but your admission fee to the event is waived.

However, I only have four more slots available for women, so if you'd like to be one of the four selected to attend, you must let me know ASAP. All you have to do is email me at pics@womenapproachyou.com Give me a brief description of your personality, plus attach a picture or two. Please only reply if you're serious about coming--obviously I need to get this locked down soon. I only have room for four, so time is of the essence.

If you want to read about the event (or you're a guy reading this who has not yet registered) go to http://www.johnalanis.com/event_reg.htm

If you're one of the four selected, you're going to have a great time, meet some attractive guys (by the END of the event!), and discover how to make money. Again, the address to reply to is: pics@womenapproachyou.com

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Again, you can read all about the event by going to now.

Posted by john at 04:57 PM

The fine line between naughty and rude

I'm seeing a recurring mistake many guys are making with women, and that's crossing the line from what I call "naughty" to rude. It is a fine line, and something that many guys, in their exuberance to change from the "nice guy" cross.

Many guys actually wind up insulting or personally attacking women, instead of creating attraction. You don't want to do that--all that does is get you a reputation as a real "a-hole."

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When you're talking to a woman, you always want to let her know you have a playful, naughty side to you, and that everything you say is in the spirit of fun. Giving her a "bad time in a good way" is a great way to look at it. You create tension by saying something "outrageous," but then transform that tension into attraction by following it up with a humorous statement OR body language (such as a "naughty smile") that lets her know it's in the spirit of fun. Now, you don't want to be a clown, which is why I say you have to have that "side" to you, a side that you let out at the appropriate time, along with all your other sides.

What you don't want to do is personally insult a woman. For instance, saying to a personal trainer who obviously works out, "Hey there, you need to get in the gym, you're looking a bit chubby today" is perfectly fine (accompanied by playful intent and body language). Saying that to woman who may perceive herself to be a bit overweight can be rude and hurtful.

Usually I like to make comments based on "environmental factors"--jewelry, dress, car, a comment she just made, what food she ordered, etc., are all good examples. What I try to avoid are personal factors--weight, finances, job performance, anything that would be a "swipe" at her identity. As you get more "in tune" with being "naughty" with women, you'll begin to get a sense of what you can comment about, and what's better not to comment about. But if you're just starting out, a good rule of thumb is to comment on environmental factors, and avoid the "personal factors." That way you'll be known as a "naughty, sexy guy," not a "rude jerk."

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the big leagues and live a lifetime of success and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/event_reg.htm right now!

Posted by john at 09:54 AM