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January 19, 2007

Today is the last day

Tonight, Friday, January 19, 2007 at two minutes to midnightI am officially closing registration to my Ultimate Attraction Immersion Event. No one else will be allowed in after that time. If you haven't yet registered, time is of the essence. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/event_reg.htm to be sure you don't miss out.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS If you've ever been confused as to how to create attraction with women, that confusion will evaporate when you actually see it happening live. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/event_reg.htm now. This closes tonight.

Posted by john at 04:10 PM

Someone finally gets it right

Yesterday I was on the CNN website when I found an article regarding attraction. Now, usually when someone in the general media writes an article about attraction, it's pure, unadulterated BS--they have no clue what they're talking about.

This article, however, had some merit--below are a few excerpts:

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LONDON, England (Reuters) -- Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but other people's opinions matter too when it comes to the attraction between men and women, according to researchers.

They found women are more attracted to a man if other women like him too.

"We tend to think about things like attraction as reflecting a private decision or a personal choice but our work shows that people's attractiveness judgments can be influenced in pronounced ways by what other people appear to think of those individuals," said psychologist Dr. Ben Jones.

Jones, of the University of Aberdeen, and his team tested the impact of the opinions of others by giving women a test in which they had to choose the more attractive of pairs of male faces and to rate how much more handsome they found them.

They were then shown a short video in which the same faces were displayed. But each face was being looked at by a woman smiling or one showing a bored or neutral expression.

After watching the video, the researchers repeated the initial test. We found that the slide show caused women to become more attracted to the men who were being smiled at by other women," said Jones.

The test had the opposite effect on men however, possibly because of the competition factor amongst males.

When men were asked to look at the same male faces, those who got the approving female glances became less appealing.

"This shows that people are using cues to the attitudes of others towards individuals to shape their own attractiveness judgments of those individuals," Jones told Reuters.

The findings, which are reported in The Proceedings of The Royal Society B journal, are similar to mate-choice copying seen in other species and are thought to be the first time it has been shown in humans. Positive female interest in the faces increased the women's preference for the males but it had the opposite effect on male judgments.

Jones suggests the positive reaction conveys a sense of approval for women but the negative male reaction could reflect jealousy or competition.

I have to say I'm 100% in agreement with the results of this study. Women are attracted to a man who's attractive to women. What strategies does this suggest? Well, if you go out to meet women, it helps if you already have one (or two) with you. If you're putting pictures in an online profile, you'll certainly want to have some of you with women in it.

The only thing I would add to the study is, the more attractive the women who are around you, the more approval you get from other women.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success and choice with the women you desire? Then go to: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 08:41 AM