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January 22, 2007

How I was shamed into success with women

I remember it like it was yesterday. It was my senior year in high school and I'd finally gotten the nerve to ask the woman I had a secret crush on to the prom. I screwed up my courage, and asked her point blank in third period Calculus. It seemed like an eternity as I sat there waiting for her to answer, hoping and praying she'd say yes, but getting a sinking feeling that she was going to reject me.

And she did reject me. Told me she "didn't think of me in that way," and that we should just be "good friends." You want to know the worst part? I knew she was lying to me. She didn't yet have a date and was waiting for a more "socially acceptable" guy to ask her. So much for "good friends"--last time I checked friends don't humiliate you in public.

I was so ashamed and embarrassed I vowed I would never let something like that happen to me ever again. No matter what it took, I would learn how to be successful with women! To read the story of how I finally achieved stunning success, with incredibly desirable women, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now...

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS I'm seriously considering removing this website soon, as I don't want these secrets in the hands of too many men. Don't hate yourself for missing out--to avoid disappointment, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 04:23 PM

You are who you present yourself to be

Most people are worried about what other people think about them. If a guy meets a woman, one of the first things he usually asks himself (unless he's one of my students) is "what does she think about me? Does she like me? Am I her type?"

Most people let others define their reality for them because they simply don't realize you can create your own reality. In the movie The Truman Show, there's a great line, one to live by: people tend to accept the reality with which they are presented.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

If you present yourself as a guy who's scared of women, women will think of you as a guys who's scared of women. If you present yourself as a confident guy who's "good with women," they'll tend to accept you as that.

Con men understand this better than anyone. If you ever see a 20/20 or 48 hours interview with a con man, you'll see what I mean. They concoct some of the most unbelievable tales imaginable, yet people who should know better take them at face value and fall for their con. Why are they so effective? Because, in the moment, they believe the reality they're presenting to the mark. And because they believe it and present it (and their mark wants to believe it), everyone else does, even though a quick examination of the facts would prove otherwise.

Consider this: if you take the geekiest high school nerd, change his dress, teach him to walk, train him on my secrets, then put him in a new school positioned as the "bad boy," everyone at the new school will accept him as the bad boy, even though he was the nerd at the other one. Why? Because he simply presented a different reality to people.

If you want to achieve power and success in the world (not just with women), then present a powerful and successful guy to the world. Walk, talk, and act as the successful do. Study the things they do, do the things they do. You will become as successful as they are, but the world will accept you a lot sooner if you present yourself that way.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to master every part of your dating and relationship life? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 08:20 AM