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January 23, 2007

Don't chase women-- attract them!

There's nothing more frustrating than wondering if a woman "likes you," then pursuing her, trying to get her to notice you, even date you. How does it usually end? By her going off with a guy who she was "attracted to," a guy who never showed any interest in her at all.

Why would she do this? Because the guy who supposedly "showed no interest" actually knew how to create attraction, and she came to him, instead of him chasing her. Trust me, that's a much better way to go, for both men and women--if you'd like to discover how to "stop chasing" and start attracting, then simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm and discover how to get women to approach YOU first, no matter your looks, age, or income.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the big leagues and live a lifetime of success and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 04:32 PM

150 "approaches" and still no dates-- why?

One of the first things I talk about in my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women is "clarity of purpose." One of the reasons many guys fail with women is they have no idea of their outcome--they are unclear in their purpose.

They have some vague notion that they want to be a "pick up artist" or a "playa" but that's about as much thought as they put into it.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

Understand this: your clarity of purpose dictates your strategy and actions telling you what to do, and what not to do. If you're not clear in your purpose, then you take action that amount to nothing more than spinning your wheels.

Here's a case in point: a few days ago my good friend Chet Rowland (a real, bona fide dating expert, not a pretend one) told me about a student of his who proudly proclaimed he'd "done 150 approaches" and got a "pile of phone numbers."

Chet, who cares nothing about approaches and phone numbers (only exciting times with great women) asked him, "well, how many women did you actually spend time with?"

"None," this guy said--"they were all flakes." Huh--for some reason, I doubt they were the flakes. Nevertheless, this guy was very proud of his 150 approaches, and his pile of phone numbers--good reading material on a Saturday night, I guess.

Before you can get any results, you must clearly define your outcome. Once you do that, you can craft your strategy to get there--and some real results with women you can be proud about... and they can be happy with.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success and choice with the women you desire? Then go to: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 08:23 AM