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January 27, 2007

Nervous around women? Here's how to be an effortless communicator...

Do you feel nervous and awkward when it comes to talking to women? Or, do you "clench up," never knowing what to say next, then watch her walk away, knowing she could have been yours if only you knew what to say?

If you answered yes to either of these questions, there is good news: it's actually very easy to talk to women, IF you know how. The sad truth is, most men simply aren't trained in this easy to learn skill... but now, there is an amazing new system that teaches the "shy and nervous" how talk to women smoothly and effortlessly.

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On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:27 PM

Are you crazy if you talk to yourself?

When I was a kid growing up I always heard the expression, "he must be crazy because he's talking to himself." My thought at the time was, "probably the only way he could have an intelligent conversation." My life since then has, for the most part, proved me right, but it does bring up the serious question of what you say when you talk to yourself.

The "crazy" expression comes from people talking to themselves out loud (this was obviously before cell phones since now people just presume the self talker is on the phone), but it is quite normal for people to silently talk to themselves. In fact, what you say to yourself has a huge bearing on your external outcomes.

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What do most people say to themselves? Things like, "I can't, because..." or "I'm not worthy of a woman like that..." or "she's out of my league." And what results do they get?

The results they talk themselves into.

If you look at successful people, their self talk is different. They say to themselves, "How can I make more money...?" and "Is she worthy to spend time with me...?" and "Is she in my league..?" In other words, they talk to themselves from a position of high self worth.

Now, I want to make a point here. What successful people say to themselves is not just idle ramblings with no basis in fact. They back up their self talk with real world results, gotten by taking action with correct information and hard work. But the high worth self talk solidifies and reinforces their self image, leading to greater results.

Even when the perennially unsuccessful person scores a success, they dilute it with low worth self talk. "Oh, I didn't deserve it." "I just got lucky." "My ship finally came in." This low worth self talk reinforces their negative self image, leading to unsuccessful results.

If you want to achieve success in any area of life, not just women, how you talk to yourself is important. Now, in and of itself, positive self talk will not make you successful... you have to back up that talk with action. But when you do succeed, and reinforce that success with high worth self talk, it dramatically shortens the time until your next success, even makes it bigger.

So no, you're not crazy if you talk to yourself. Do it right, and it will enhance your success even more.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:19 AM