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January 29, 2007

Is there really an "attraction roadmap?"

Many men are confused by the subject of attraction, and for good reason. Women often seem unpredictable and vague, not knowing what they want, then blaming men for their troubles. However, underneath the appearance of unpredictability is actually a remarkable, step by step "structure" to attraction.

In plain English, that means attraction has a formula, and if you know what that formula is, you can use it to create attraction with any woman you desire, as predictable as the sun rising. To discover how you can get your hands on this "Ultimate Attraction Roadmap" go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_attraction.htm right now, before I decide to remove this site for good... after all, I don't want the whole world getting in on these jealously guarded secrets.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't miss out on your opportunity to discover the "hidden attraction formula." Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_attraction.htm right now!

Posted by john at 04:47 PM

What to do when you want OUT

As I'm sure you're aware by now, I write a lot of emails on how to attract women--seems there's a big market for that. But, something funny happens to a lot of guys when they finally learn to attract women and do something I warn them WILL happen: they attract too many women too fast.

See, attraction is an easily learnable skill, and once most guys learn it (especially guys who've been trapped in a lifelong "dry spell") they can't help but create attraction with every woman they come across.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

This, obviously leads to problems--but what many guys would say is a good problem to have... too many women to choose from. And I agree--it is a good problem, but it is a problem. The next step in mastering attraction is learning how to let women who are interested in you know it's time for them to move on, without hurting their feelings.

Now, the best solution to this is to disqualify women who are not suited to you before you start creating attraction. This, however, is a higher level skill, something that deserves in depth learning (and I discuss it in great detail in my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System-- http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm ). So, we'll talk about that skill at another time.

However, many guys who are just starting out are so excited to finally be succeeding that they don't care about qualifying. They'll learn soon enough, but in their initial (and perhaps well deserved) exuberance, they often create a mess.

So, the question is, how do they get out of this mess without hurting a woman's feelings? I get that question a lot from guys, and it is a good question. The answer, however, is actually pretty simple: if you're no longer interested in her, just do the things that kill attraction.

In other words, go back to your old self. Act like a nice guy. Call her all the time. Shower her with gifts and compliments. Act like a wuss. Soon enough... she won't return your calls, and won't want to see you. Why? Because she's not attracted to you anymore. What you'll discover when you do this is how much control you really do have over attraction. You'll also find out how unattractive that sort of behavior is to women so you'll know just what to avoid in the future with women who are qualified to spend time with you.

This is always the best way to end things with a woman--she thinks it's her idea, and she's not hurt. She's just not attracted to you, and therefore "doesn't think of you in that way anymore." Just what you wanted.

But don't worry--you and her can still be friends! Except this time, it's on YOUR terms.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS Want to have more fun, and attract more women than you ever have in your life, even find that one special girl? . To discover how YOU can do this, and be the envy of all your male friends, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm now.

Posted by john at 10:38 AM