-S. Daniel, Real Estate Broker
Denver, CO
-J. Turner, Webmaster
Austin, TX
-Robert O., Marketing Consultant
Toronto, Canada
I had purchased your E-book a couple of months ago, and let me tell you, it's truly a God-send! What I love about your instructions is they are very open-ended in how one can implement your techniques. One doesn't have to worry about "Oh shit, am I doing what such and such page instructed me to do correctly?!" - it beautifully managed to conjure up a bigger, practical "what to do" picture by the time I was finished reading it that, frankly, I doubt few other e-books on the matter will be able to pull off in their readers' minds. Needless to say, my results with women have been pretty amazing! The "smile your way through" technique alone is incredibly effective. Definitely smacks of the good ol' "small hinges turn big doors" maxim, and does so beautifully! It amazing how it's small things like this most of us men take for granted, instead trying desperately to put up some fake Al Pacinoesque or Johnny Depp look to attract women (and for the record, two gorgeous ladies I know of like neither of these actors :)! Most importantly, what I REALLY appreciate about your ebook is that the methods you implement can cater for men coming from ALL backgrounds - whether they are your average "free spirited" schmoe in the street, or even religious, spiritually inclined types such as myself. You may find this funny, but to be perfectly honest, before purchasing your product, I went through some trepidation before buying it, thinking it was wholly based on "best ways to flirt with women" in bars and so on - a practice that's strongly shunned by the culture I was brought up in. But upon finishing your book, I realized there are some fundamental truths about male / female dynamics that NO one in their right state of mind can deny... and us "religious" freaks have this thing for "truism" :) haha Once again, thank you very much for this awesome e-book. Two more semesters, and I'll be done with college - so, no more tuition fees! Which means you'll be looking forward to having at least ONE person purchase your Deluxe offer from my neck of the woods ;)"
Sincerely,
Arman
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January 15, 2007
Life changing resources
A few years ago I remember writing an email entitled "Poor Marty," about how Marty Schottenheimer lost another heartbreaker of a playoff game. History has repeated itself for the umpteenth time with Marty, and I have to say I feel for the guy. On a 4th down play his defensive back intercepts the ball (which he should have just knocked down), then fumbles it back to the Patriots (when he should have immediately gone down) who go on to score, then eventually to win. Poor Marty--the football gods are truly against him.
For today's episode, I received an excellent email from a man asking about my recommendations for self improvement books, since he's done quite well with what he's learned from me.
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Hi john
I've been reading your emails for over a year now and i have to say that you have completely changed my life around. I used to be abusive to women and think that the more i showed a woman that i wasn't interested and made fun of her in a demeaning way the more they would like me.
It's so clear now that all i have to do is create an interesting life for myself and by improving my self image i would feel. I was wondering i took your recommendation of reading "think and grow rich" by napoeleon hill and i noticed that my self image has dramatically improved. I want to keep on improving so i'm writing to ask you if you could send me a list of your recommendation of self books that you used to develop an unstoppable self image.
yours sincerely
Jaz H
P.S: im joining the british army in september and i know of your time in the Navy. I was wondering if military service builds a stronger self image and improves success with women in any way. once agen thank you.
JA: Thanks for the email, Jaz. First off, there's nothing like military service to improve your self image. You will be pushed to do things you would never believe you could do on your own, then when you begin to excel, you will get an opportunity to push others under you to do the same. There is nothing like being in charge of a group of men and being personally responsible for their outcomes when it comes to building your self image. And yes, women do find a leader irresistible.
Here are a few book recommendations for you. There are others, of course, but these are some of the ones that have made a big impact in my life.
Winning Through Intimidation by Robert Ringer
The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.
Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini
Psychocybernetics by Maxwell Maltz (also Zero Resistance Living)
You should also read everything ever written by Dan Kennedy. While there are many other books, seminars, courses, and systems I could recommend, I highly advise starting with these books. They will literally change your life, as they have changed the lives of others.
Of course I also recommend attending my fast approaching Ultimate Attraction Immersion Event. There are still seats available, but I'm going to close off seating soon Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/event_reg.htm for details.
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS The Ultimate Attraction Immersion Event is fast approaching--to make sure you don't miss out, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/event_reg.htm right now.