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January 06, 2007
The fine line between naughty and rude
I'm seeing a recurring mistake many guys are making with women, and that's crossing the line from what I call "naughty" to rude. It is a fine line, and something that many guys, in their exuberance to change from the "nice guy" cross.
Many guys actually wind up insulting or personally attacking women, instead of creating attraction. You don't want to do that--all that does is get you a reputation as a real "a-hole."
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When you're talking to a woman, you always want to let her know you have a playful, naughty side to you, and that everything you say is in the spirit of fun. Giving her a "bad time in a good way" is a great way to look at it. You create tension by saying something "outrageous," but then transform that tension into attraction by following it up with a humorous statement OR body language (such as a "naughty smile") that lets her know it's in the spirit of fun. Now, you don't want to be a clown, which is why I say you have to have that "side" to you, a side that you let out at the appropriate time, along with all your other sides.
What you don't want to do is personally insult a woman. For instance, saying to a personal trainer who obviously works out, "Hey there, you need to get in the gym, you're looking a bit chubby today" is perfectly fine (accompanied by playful intent and body language). Saying that to woman who may perceive herself to be a bit overweight can be rude and hurtful.
Usually I like to make comments based on "environmental factors"--jewelry, dress, car, a comment she just made, what food she ordered, etc., are all good examples. What I try to avoid are personal factors--weight, finances, job performance, anything that would be a "swipe" at her identity. As you get more "in tune" with being "naughty" with women, you'll begin to get a sense of what you can comment about, and what's better not to comment about. But if you're just starting out, a good rule of thumb is to comment on environmental factors, and avoid the "personal factors." That way you'll be known as a "naughty, sexy guy," not a "rude jerk."
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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