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January 10, 2007
The need for speed
Before we get started with today's episode, I just want to remind everyone of my 36th Birthday Week Sale, which is in full swing right now. This is your opportunity to claim a fat discount on all my products, and you can do so by going to http://www.johnalanis.com/bdaysale.htm right now. This sale ends tomorrow, so fast action is necessary on your part.
What I want to do today is address an important issue I've been receiving a lot of emails about recently, and it what it really regards is the speed of attraction.
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I've had a lot of guys write and tell me about a woman they met, tell me they think she's attracted to them, then tell me all their interactions with her over a period of a month or so. Their question always is, "I think she's lost interest in me, what should I do?"
They're right--she was interested, and now she's not. Why? Because attraction requires speed--it's either growing, or it's dieing. When you meet a woman you're interested in, and you've done a good job creating attraction, you need to rapidly advance that attraction.
That doesn't mean emailing her for weeks, or dropping by her place of work every day and hanging out, or wondering when you should ask for a phone number. It means allowing her the opportunity to join you for a fun time, as soon as possible. And then when you're alone with her, getting physical as soon as possible.
Ever heard a woman say, "I just want a man who sweeps me off my feet?" They all say that, and it implies rapidity of movement, the continuous advancement of attraction. It does not mean wait for weeks, wondering if "she likes me." If you wait when she's attracted, she'll quickly assume you're not the man she thinks you are.
Better to move too fast, than to move slowly or not at all. Fortune favors the bold, especially when it comes to attraction.
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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