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January 31, 2007
Why you must qualify women
At my recent Ultimate Attraction Immersion Event, I spent a whole session on the subject of qualifying women. While it may be hard for some of you to believe at first, when you start engaging in attractive behavior, you will very quickly have more choices with women than you have time.
If you don't become good at qualifying women, your life can very quickly spin out of control. In fact, inability to qualify women is what gets most men in trouble. I got a very good question today regarding qualifying, so pay close attention to it.
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John--
What's your idea when a woman behaves like brakes and opposite of cheerleader when faced with "her" man or boyfriend's success and possibility of future independence, in financial and time terms, etc.?
Also, what to you think of LTR with a woman who's submissive and adores you, no high maintenance, but at the same time she's no match intellectually? Everything is fine and she's a great follower, but I'm often bored to death that there's nothing to talk with her about, at the same time all the rest is straight As. ??? These questions are somewhat separate.
Thanks,
V.P.
JA: Thanks for the great questions. In your first question, what you're describing is a woman who sabotages success. Some people don't have the self image to handle success, and when they, or the person they're with becomes successful, they start to sabotage it so they can get back to their comfort zone. This happens with a lot of men and women--one becomes successful, and the other then works to destroy that success.
Many people, unfortunately, don't feel like they deserve to be successful and you have to be on the lookout for them. That's one of the big things I look for in a woman--does she feel like she deserves to be with a successful man. If she makes comments like "oh, that car is too nice for me," or "that restaurant is only for rich people," or "I could never imagine making that much money," then I know she has deservingness issues and is not for me. The way to deal with people like that is to get them out of your life as fast as possible--the probability of them changing is very slim. Find a woman who truly believes she deserves to be successful and you'll get there that much faster.
As far as meeting a woman who's boring, that comes down to what you want in a woman. I tell guys all the time that before they start attracting women, they need to sit down and make a list of everything they want in a woman, and everything they don't want. Then, if she has something you don't want, you disqualify her and move on. Every guy's list is different. For example, the woman you described may not be right for you, but may be perfect for another guy. You just have to know what you want before you start taking action to get it.
Thanks for the great questions!
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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