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February 05, 2007

Have you been brainwashed into failing with women?

Why do most men fail with women? Because what society teaches about women, dating, attraction, and relationships is just plain wrong--and there's a good chance you're an unwitting victim.

There is good news, though. No matter how much society tries to brainwash men, it can't overcome secrets of natural, biological attraction that literally force desirable women to flock to you, no matter your looks, age, or income.

To discover these controversial, forbidden attraction secrets, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before society finds out about this website and demands its removal. Yes, these secrets are that powerful.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Hurry, before it's too late. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover these attraction secrets society does not want you to know.

Posted by john at 04:30 PM

What do you say to the most important person in your life?

Are you crazy if you talk to yourself? Of course not--talking to yourself is as much a part of being alive as is breathing. But many, many people talk to themselves in what could only be described as a crazy manner, and they get what, to me, would be crazy results.

But my definition of crazy is what's normal to most people, and I presume if you're reading this you most certainly do NOT want to be normal.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

So, how do most people talk to themselves? In this way, "I can't because...."

"I can't be with an attractive woman because I don't have any money."

"I can't be with an attractive woman because I'm too short."

"I can't be with an attractive woman because attractive women don't talk to guys like me in my town."

Pretty sad, huh? But this is what most of the world has going on in their heads. Unfortunately, it's even worse when it comes to money and finances.

"I can't have that car because I can't afford it."

"I can't go to that seminar because my boss won't let me take the day off."

"I could never live in a house that nice--it costs too much money."

"I could never be rich--I'm not that lucky."

Now, what do you think successful people say when they talk to themselves? I'll tell you--instead of telling themselves "I can't," they ask themselves a question: "How can I?"

"How can I attract that beautiful woman?"

"How can I create value so I earn the money to get that beautiful car?"

"How can I live in a house like that?"

"How can I get rich quickly and easily so I can live the life I truly desire?"

Do you see the difference in the self talk? It's a crucial difference. The "I can't because..." self talk prevents you from taking action, the "How can I?" question prompts you to take action--and success only comes from action.

But there is something even deeper behind both kinds of self talk--belief about deservingness. The "I can't" guy believes, deep down, that he really doesn't deserve success. The "How can I?" guy does because he knows that in order to succeed he must create value in the world, value he deserves to be compensated for.

Society conditions people to say "I can't," and installs the belief that you don't deserve success. But when you thumb your nose at society, start asking yourself "How can I?" and adopt the belief that you deserve to be well compensated for the value you create, you start getting what to society are "crazy results"--success! Success with women, money, friends, you name it, you'll get it.

But only when you start talking to yourself the right way.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS "How can you succeed wildly with desirable women?" Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for the answers...

Posted by john at 10:51 AM