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February 02, 2007
The principle of the slight edge
If you pay attention to the popular media, you'll pick up on their belief that successful people are somehow more talented, luckier or smarter than the "average guy." In other words they were born with "something" most people lack, and if you weren't born with it, you can't succeed in life.
It's a convenient excuse. But it has nothing to do with reality. The opposite is, in many cases true--successful people have less talent, worse luck and no more brains than most people. But they do have one advantage: a slight edge.
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Successful people operate on the principle of the slight edge. They know if a piece of information can give them a slight edge over everyone else, that slight edge translates into massive success. Little hinges do indeed swing big doors.
What most successful people do that unsuccessful people refuse to is constantly search for that slight edge. They go to seminars, buy courses, invest in systems all with the intention of getting just one, tiny idea that, applied in the right way can make eventually make a big difference in their lives.
Let me give you an example. A few years ago I used to have terrible problems with women flaking out on me when it came to meeting in person. Not all of them, certainly, but enough to drive me crazy. If you're a long time reader of my daily episodes, you know one of my favorite books is Cialdini's Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion.
I've read that book over ten time, and each time I learn something new. When I sat down to read it again, this problem of flaking was in the back of my mind--and by the time I got finished with the section on commitment and consistency I had one saying I knew would end flaking by women forever. And it has--I say this to every woman I speak to on the phone and I have not had one flake since then--not one.
If I was like the average guy, I never would have read that book, and I certainly would not have re-read it and re-read it. But because I operate on the principle of the slight edge, always looking for one good idea, I was able to find that idea on the 11th (or 12th) reading of that book.
Forget about what you hear about success from the popular media and those who are not successful. They have no clue. Instead, make it your business to operate on the principle of the slight edge. One good idea can change your life for ever.
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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